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My
dear friends, let us play. Yes, you heard me correctly. Now is
the time for play. In fact, today the church begins that time
of the year when we do our most serious playing. And playing
is a serious business, you know. Ask any teacher of children.
Better still, watch children at play. No wonder they are tired
at the end of the day. They work hard at playing. They take it
seriously.
Play
is the child’s laboratory for learning about life.
Youngsters who have never played at being grown up tend to be
stunted when they confront the actual experience. Boys who
have never been allowed to play with dolls can hardly be
expected to hold their own infants with ease and loving
confidence. It has to be latter learned (if it is ever learned
at all.)
Play,
as much as we adults scoff at it, may be a more valuable tool
for learning than all the “educational” resources the
professionals can create. That is why on Ash Wednesday, the
church summons us to a season of play. Our Lord has told us,
if we are to enter the Kingdom of Heaven, we must become as
little children. And one of childhood’s most important
occupations is to play.
Am
I wrong in my impression, however, that most of us do not come
to church to play, that play is often the furthest thing from
our minds? Play is often foreign in our religion. If it is to
be found in the church at all, it is best restricted to the
nursery. Yet it
is so much a part of faith.
H.
L. Menchen defined a Puritan as “a
person with the haunting fear that someone, somewhere, might
be happy.” I know the shadow of a Puritan still comes
to church in me from time to time. What about you? This is
why, as we enter the so-often solemn season of Lent, I talk of
play. Because the work of worship is taking play seriously,
and why on Ash Wednesday we play with deadly seriousness.
In
a few moments, we will gather around our Lord’s table
together. We will be confronted with ashes and remember the
reality that “from dust we have come and to dust we shall
return.” That’s deadly serious stuff. It is here that we
are confronted with our own mortality. As children learn to
live through their play, so the church helps us learn to live
beyond death through our play.
After
all, it is in seeing beyond death that we learn what is
important in living, and we then learn how to truly live. It
is in the play of Lent that we take time to examine ourselves.
Are we in
communion with God, as we would like?
More importantly, are we in communion as God would like?
Are we in communion with ourselves?
Are we whole and who God has crafted us to be?
Remember
that wholeness without God is little more than an illusion. As
we seek that connection in these 40 days, Jesus gives us some
direction as to what it is to live, to play as children of
God.
Be
especially careful when you are trying to be good so that you
don’t make a performance out of it. It might be good
theater, but the God who made you won’t be applauding.
When
you do something for someone else, don’t call attention to
yourself. You’ve seen them in action, I’m
sure—‘playactors’ I call them—treating prayer meeting
and street corner alike as stage, acting compassionate as long
as someone is watching, playing to the crowds. They get
applause, true, but that’s all they get. When you help
someone out, don’t think about how it looks. Just do
it—quietly and unobtrusively. That is the way your God, who
conceived you in love, working behind the scenes, helps you
out.
And
when you come before God, don’t turn that into a theatrical
production, either. All these people making a regular show out
of their prayers, hoping for stardom! Do you think God sits in
a box seat?
Here’s
what I want you to do: Find a quiet, secluded place so you
won’t be tempted to role-play before God. Just be there as
simply and honestly as you can manage. The focus will shift
from you to God, and you will begin to sense his grace.
In
prayer there is a connection between what God does and what
you do. You can’t get forgiveness from God, for instance,
without also forgiving others. If you refuse to do your part,
you cut yourself off from God’s part.
When
you practice some appetite-denying discipline to better
concentrate on God, don’t make a production out of it. It
might turn you into a small-time celebrity but it won’t make
you a saint. If you ‘go into training’ inwardly, act
normal outwardly. Shampoo and comb your hair, brush your
teeth, wash your face. God doesn’t require attention-getting
devices. He won’t overlook what you are doing; he’ll
reward you well.
Matthew 6:1-6, 16-21 (The Message)
Looking
religious! Giving to the poor, prayer, fasting—all are
hallmarks of the religious life. But those hallmarks can lose
their connection with the root, the Source, the reason for
their practice. There are only two parties in the picture
Jesus paints: God (the creator) and each of us (the created).
With God already knowing what’s really going on, there is no
one to fool but ourselves.
As
we play during this Lenten season, as we draw close to
God—examining and opening ourselves to God’s transforming
grace—we take from Jesus a reminder that it’s not what it
looks like that holds value, but rather what it truly is.
May
we have ears to hear the sound of God’s voice calling us to
reflect and play this Lenten season, and to live beyond death
in his kingdom. Amen.
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