|
Can you
believe it? It’s Christmas Eve morning! The day we’ve
waited for and planned for and hoped for such a long time is
finally here. I have long preferred Christmas Eve to
Christmas Day. Christmas Eve is the time of sparkling
lights and of breath-holding expectation. The time when we
dare to hope that things can be different, that we can be
different, that our world can and even will some day be
different.
Prayer: Gracious God,
be with our eyes, be with our ears, and be with our hearts,
as we try to move as close to the manger as we can. Amen.
O Little
Town of Bethlehem. Why is it that we love that carol so
much? Is it because it paints a picture we can see with our
eyes and also experience in our hearts? For we are a people
who need pictures to go with the words. Doris, can we sing
that first verse one more time? And as we sing, take time
to let the picture materialize in your mind’s eye:
All Singing: O little town of
Bethlehem, how still we see thee lie, above thy deep and
dreamless sleep the silent stars go by. Yet in thy dark
streets shineth the everlasting light; the hopes and fears
of all the years are met in thee tonight.
How does
that little town look to you? Where do you place yourself
as you sing the words and imagine the picture?
When I
sing this carol, I often find myself looking down at the
city, quietly floating above. I sense the mystery and awe of
this place. I am content to simply watch from a distance,
to enjoy the beauty, to feel it in my heart. The view from
up here is lovely; perhaps it’s what the angels saw.
When
others visualize the picture of the “Little Town,” perhaps
you see yourself walking around, down in the streets. Maybe
you are even looking for the baby. Maybe that’s what
brought you here today; to try to find the baby that is
causing such a stir.
If that’s
why you came, you are in just the right place, even though
you may not realize it. Perhaps you are even feeling a
little lost. After all, the streets seem dark, and
sometimes if feels as though you are walking them all
alone. The silent stars are going by, but they don’t really
give enough light to walk by. It is hard to imagine that
the everlasting light could be just ahead. But the baby is
close, and we are going to find a way to take a peek.
If you are
one like me who has been hovering above the little town,
looking down with awe, I invite you to move down into the
streets today. We need to stand on the solid ground of the
real world into which Jesus was born, and take a moment to
look around. Stand close enough for flesh-and-blood family.
·
Close enough to see that the swaddling clothes are ragged,
·
close enough to hear the birth
sounds of Mary,
·
close enough to feel the
prickles of the straw as we help keep watch.
·
Stand close enough for our hopes to meet our fears.
You see, this baby Jesus was a real live
baby – Our scripture said, “The Word became flesh and
dwelt among us.” Emmanuel, God with us. And he came
precisely for those of us who are brave enough to walk in
the dark streets. The prophet Isaiah said, “The people
who walked in darkness have seen a great light!” (Isaiah
9:2)
But to see
the baby, to really see him, up close and personal, we
usually have to walk through the dark streets. And wait for
the light. And maybe even help light a few candles.
Those of us who spend Christmas with
families have a kind of mixed blessing. For families are
people who have known us for our whole life, and they not
only love us, but they are also people who carry a lifetime
of our memories and our scars. We have shared with them the
toughest moments in our lives, the places where we, or they,
have failed to be our best, the times when we could have
done better, but somehow we just didn’t.
And we hope that some miracle will occur,
and that THIS year, our family members will all get along,
and that we will somehow remember only what we love about
each other and forget about the things that are painful or
hurtful. And if this baby who is coming can change
anything, wouldn’t it be great if he could just change Uncle
Harry, just this one time!
Can you
imagine a family where there is a brother who refuses to
talk to anyone? And a grandpa who has been kicked out of a
nursing home for bad behavior, and a dad who has lost his
job but smiles incessantly? And a mom who is at her wits end
worrying about money, and an uncle who recently tried to
commit suicide. And then there is the ordinary young girl
who insists on telling the truth, even in the most painful
moments? If you saw the movie, you know that this is the
family from “Little Miss Sunshine.”
Perhaps the particulars are different,
but I expect that there will be more than one family table
surrounded by a host of equally interesting characters over
the next couple of days; perhaps even at your house; for
sure at mine. If you are lucky, there is also a baby or a
small child in your family. We rejoice when a baby is born
into our family. We are thrilled to see those first small
movements; movements that the baby’s mother has been feeling
for months. Children move a lot. Movement is a sign of
life, a gift of hope, a way that God speaks to us and
through us.
An eight
year old wrote: One of God's main jobs is making
people. He makes these to put in the place of the ones who
die so there will be enough people to take care of things
here on earth. He doesn't make grownups, he just makes
babies. I think because they are smaller and easier to
make.
This eight-year-old may be onto
something. God just makes babies. Babies make all the
difference. If your family has a baby, whether it’s a
grandchild, a niece, a cousin, or a friend; it’s just that
much easier to find hope. Even when the going gets tough.
The brother in “Little Miss
Sunshine” wears a tee-shirt that says, “Jesus
was….” For the first part of the movie, we cannot quite
read the final word on the shirt. We simply see the family
functioning in their dysfunctional way. Then, as things go
from bad to worse, we finally learn that the tee-shirt says,
“Jesus was wrong!”
As we sit around those tables tomorrow,
perhaps some of us, if we were honest, would be wearing
those same tee-shirts.
In “Little
Miss Sunshine,” there comes a point when the
brother-- the dark, unspeaking brother-- is pushed right
across the edge when he learns that his dearest dream cannot
become a reality. In a moment of rage and fury, he yells out
terrible things to his family: He says that they are NOT
his family; that he doesn’t love them, that they
should go on without him.
It’s a
horrible moment. A wrong moment. It looks like
the tee-shirt is right. And then, his little sister Olive
does an interesting thing. She goes and sits beside him.
She doesn’t say a word; she simply sits with her arm around
him. And after a while, he gets up. And he picks her up
and carries her up the tall hill back to their parents. And
he says “I’m sorry. I didn’t mean it.”
How do we
find this grace? How do we peek at the baby? How can we
find hope both for ourselves and for others? Being here in
worship is a good first step. And another step is prayer.
I wonder what would happen if each of us took the
time today to quietly pray by name for
every person we expect to see at the dinner table; or for
every person who creates waves of discomfort in our lives.
Not a prayer to CHANGE them, just a prayer FOR them. Prayer
is a wonderful means of grace. And our God listens.
The ancient
Greeks had an idea of God as the unmoved mover. The
unchanged and changeless power; ethereal and untouchable.
But the God we worship seems to have a different way of
operating. For our God IS moved. Our God heard the cry of
slaves thousands of years ago, and was moved to call Moses
to lead them to safety. Later, our God heard the cry of
Israelites who had lost their way again, and God moved to
send them prophets like Isaiah to point them in a new
direction.[i]
Finally, at
the first Christmas, our God saw the darkness in our lives,
and God moved to come and be among us, first as a baby! We
call it incarnation, Emmanuel. But Jesus grew up and kept
being moved and moving. He touched the eyes of the blind.
He ate and drank with sinners. He picked up a loaf of bread
and blessed it and told us that it would feed us until he
comes back again.
A second
Advent. Coming some day. Or maybe it’s already here in
some way. Maybe the kingdom of God is already among us,
touching us. Changing us. And sometimes we recognize it.
We Methodists
see God’s hand and God’s grace as the things that enable
each small or large act of goodness. Each time we somehow
manage to overcome our pain or our fear and MOVE in a new
direction. Even at the Christmas dinner table. Even in the
church. Even in the world, where impossible things sometimes
happen anyways. Signs of grace and signs of even greater
things to come. Hope, for each of us and all of us.
Every person has a place in the Little
Town of Bethlehem; right down there in the dark streets.
For all of us have hopes, and all of us have fears, and
tonight is the night when the hopes and the fears move
together to be changed into something new. Not really
changed by a baby; no - changed by the power of the living
God who came to live among us and came to die among us and
who came to show us everlasting light by the power of his
resurrection!
And because we can catch glimpses of that
manger glow, and even carry that light in our hearts, we can
live in hope. Hope for today, as we deal with dysfunctional
moments. Hope for tomorrow, as we wonder about our own
fate. And hope for an eternity of tomorrows, as we wonder
about our humankind, until this
one who first
came as a baby comes again “to guide all our feet into
the way of peace,” and to change our dark and silent
night into a holy night.
As we remain seated together, let’s sing
all four verses of Silent Night (and two
verses of Hark! the Herald Angels Sing).
As we sing, I invite you to imagine yourself right
there, close to the manger, in that Silent Night.
(“Silent Night” with
Liturgical Dance)
Benediction: Go out to prepare for
this holy night, knowing that the light of God’s grace is
shining there for you. Knowing that there is a place for you
in Bethlehem. Amen.
[i]
From (From
A Third Serving of
Chicken Soup for the Soul, by Jack
Canfield and Mark Victor Hansen. Published by Health
Communications, Deerfield Beach, Florida. To order,
call 1-800-441-5569) in
www.quotablequotes.com accessed 12/19/06.
[i]
Begbie, Jeremy. Beholding the Glory (Grand
Rapids: Baker Books, 2001) 66.
|