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Dr. Carl Price
When to Walk Away

Sermon:
September 1, 2002
Morning Services 

Scripture:
Matthew 4:1-11

The story of the temptation of Jesus has been used as a lesson in dealing with our own struggles for centuries. Did you hear about the clergy family who had trouble keeping their budget balanced because the wife had trouble with the wardrobe part of their finances? The lady knew she overdid it now and then and they talked about it on several occasions. Finally the husband said, “Dear, remember the temptation of Jesus, and how he said, ‘Get Thee behind me, Satan’?  Maybe you need to remember that when you feel tempted to buy a dress that we can’t afford.”      

The wife thought that was a great idea and things went quite well for several months. Then one day the husband came home and saw a box on the table from a very expensive dress shop.  Before he could say anything or ask a question, the wife appeared and said, “Dear, before you get upset, let me tell you what happened. I was walking down the street and saw this dress in the window. It doesn’t cost anything to look in a window, so I just stopped to look. Then I thought I would like to check the material and look at it a little closer. It doesn’t cost anything to look inside either; so I went in the store. The material seemed to be very good quality and I thought it would be nice to try it on; they don’t charge for trying dresses on, you know.      

“It wasn’t until I had the dress on and was standing in front of the mirror that I felt the temptation to buy the dress; but I remembered what we had talked about and I said, ‘Get thee behind me, Satan.’     

“And Satan said, ‘It looks good from the rear, too!’”     

I suppose the lesson here might be that there are times when conversations with the Tempter aren’t the best way to deal with the situation—times when, figuratively or literally, we need to walk away. Which is why the words of Kenny Rogers about a game of cards came to mind as I read this ancient story.     

You have probably anticipated the words. Kenny Rogers didn’t say them first, but he probably said them more often and, for sure, he got paid the most for saying them: “You need to know when to hold ‘em,  know when to fold ‘em, know when to walk away, know when to run.” Some games you should just get entirely away from. 

Which brings me to why I think this may be the underlying lesson in the story. Have you ever wondered why Jesus didn’t tell the Tempter to beat it when he suggested the stones be made into bread; or at least when he hinted that a leap from the Temple would attract a crowd? I mean, why give the Tempter another chance? Life is not a ball game in which the opposition is guaranteed three strikes. The Tempter does not operate like Regis—he will never politely ask if that is your final answer; he will always offer another opportunity to give the answer he wants.   

So why did Jesus enter into debate, so to speak, with the Tempter on two occasions, then distance himself so conclusively on the third? What is there here that prompted such a quick and decisive turning away?  

Part of the answer to that question is probably the nature of this offer…“All the kingdoms of this world.” A piece of us probably doesn’t like to believe that such a blatant offer would ever appeal to Jesus. What would Jesus want with the kingdoms of this world? Didn’t he often speak about the inadequacy of things? And didn’t his life demonstrate very clearly that he lived what he said?      

But this temptation is not really about wealth. Wealth is clearly a part of this imagery, but there comes a point when the issue ceases to be money. I mean, how much money does anyone really need? I know it always seems like the answer is “Just a little more than what we have,” but seriously, does anyone really need the kind of money they talk about in the sports and entertainment world, to pick the most obvious examples? Or the dollars involved in the Enron and WorldCom and other scandals that have covered the media over the past several months? Are these events really just about money?    

I told this story on the Men’s Retreat four or five years ago, but it seems to fit our theme, so I ask any of you who may remember it to bear with me. A westerner decided to go to India and take up a life of poverty with one of the orders that shunned possessions, believing that a loincloth and a begging bowl were all that was needed in life. He found a guru who was willing to take him on as a disciple and so began the simple life. After a couple of years, the teacher told him that he was going on a pilgrimage into the mountains and the time had come for the disciple to go it on his own.     

Things went well for several weeks. Then he woke up one morning in the brush and stick shelter where he slept to discover that the rats had eaten his loincloth. Embarrassed, he tried to use his bowl as a modesty cover while he begged a piece of cloth. A few weeks later the rats struck again. After the fourth or fifth such embarrassment, the disciple decided that what he needed was a cat. A cat would take care of the rats and save both his loincloth and his dignity. People were always giving cats away—that wasn’t a problem—so he acquired a cat. That solved the problem nicely; except that the cat got pregnant, as cats often do, and he soon had several cats and shortly after that, no rats for cat food.  So he had to start begging for milk for his cats as well as food for himself.       

That cut into his devotional time and, after a few weeks, he decided he needed to get a goat. A goat would give him milk to feed his cats and not take away so much time from his devotions as the extra begging. So he traded some of his nicer cats for a rather bedraggled goat.  That worked all right, but he soon discovered that he needed to keep the goat tied up to keep it from wandering off. And keeping the goat tied meant that he soon found himself needing to gather grass to feed his goat—and the goat also turned out to be pregnant.        

A few goats later, when he found that he was spending still less time at his devotions, he came up with the idea of hiring someone to tend his goats on shares. That worked fine, but as the number of workers grew to keep pace with his goats, he found that personnel matters took more and more of his time. He decided that the way to solve that was to get married and let his wife manage the workers. That worked okay, except that his wife was not satisfied with a stick and brush hut to live in, so he had to build her a house.    

Several more years passed and one day the old guru returned from his mountain pilgrimage. He went to the site of the stick and brush shelter to greet his disciple and found the largest, finest house in the village in its place. Distraught and dismayed, he looked up the disciple and said to him, “My son! What have you done? What is the meaning of all this opulence?”   

To which the disciple replied, “Holy Father, it was the only way I could keep my loincloth!”    

Understand that I am not advocating loincloths and begging bowls, and I don’t intend to suggest that there is anything inherently wrong in making money. How we make it and what we do with it are issues for faith, but beyond that there is an insidiousness about materialism, isn’t there? And it reaches a point where, no matter what we say, it really isn’t about money anymore. In the same manner, “the kingdoms of this world” was not really about wealth. It was about power.    

Again, it is easy to think that Jesus would never have been attracted by such an offer. But let’s face it: if there was no appeal, why does the Bible call it a temptation? Temptation means you are tempted, doesn’t it? The prevalent image of the Messiah in Jesus’ time was of a political and military leader. Multitudes of ardent Jewish nationalists waited for such a leader to issue the call to take up the sword in revolt against Rome. We say that Jesus wasn’t that kind of Messiah, but when did he decide that?     

Howard Thurman, in his book The Inward Journey, pictures Jesus sitting on the mountain, but not with a horned and pitchforked figure sitting on a rock across from him like the monk in the monastery outside Jericho that I referred to in Steeple Notes imagined it. He pictures Jesus pondering his mission and feeling the awful weight of the world’s suffering and need, not from some mountain high enough to see all the kingdoms of this world, but with visions in his mind that can call up those images in any place. He sees him dreaming of a world that must do his Father’s will, that must act in love to one another, that must share its riches. Dr. Thurman writes:    

He had wandered about the hill above the rock…
In and out of his mind the query came. …

The kingdoms of this world —
      Jesus looked and trembled.

Darkness crept down; the stars returned.
Slowly he started back along the path.
The kingdoms of this world… 
What if I could… Oh, no!
Suppose I could. It is too fantastic.
If I could bring it off...
All their force and power 
As instruments for good.
By mighty acts which none could brook
Fear and hunger would disappear.
The deeds of peace would banish plans for war.
Such is my Father’s will. …

Kings, kingdoms, earthly rulers all
Would disappear.
And in their place the Mind of God would sit enthroned.
His son would rule for Him.      

To do good by evil means; to win converts with the sword; to conquer the world for a good cause. Does it sound any more attractive now? Any more familiar? Any more—tempting? The Crusaders tried it. So did Charlemagne. So did the armies of Islam. Even Adolf Hitler said he had a dream of a world made up of the elite, a Super Race. A war to make the world safe for Democracy, we said. A war to end all wars, we said again. Are we now on the brink of one  guaranteed to….what? Make the world safe for the progress of capitalism?  

Have you noticed how war tends to bring participants closer and closer to a lower common denominator? We entered World War II condemning the enemy for saturation bombing of civilian populations; we ended up with Dresden and Hiroshima and Nagasaki on the Allies’ list of targets.       

Understand that I am not a pacifist; I do not think that we can survive in this world by unilateral disarmament. I believe that evil must sometimes be resisted with force. But I would remind us that the Tempter has his own agenda in our debates, and if war drags all to the lowest common denominator, then we have lost, even if we win.        

I have spent much of my time on this third temptation of Jesus because it seems so contemporary and because it was at this point that Jesus walked away; but I would suggest another possibility on why Jesus walked away at this point. What if it was more than the theme of this temptation? What if it was not until then that he really realized that he was dealing with the Tempter? I know the Scriptures speak of the Tempter speaking to him on the first two instances, but what if these temptations came to Jesus in much the same manner that temptations come to us? After all, the Bible says that “Jesus was tempted in all manner, even as we are tempted.” Do you always see the Tempter when you are tempted? I sure don’t. The question of bread began with Jesus’ own hunger and whether or not to use his power for his own needs. The question about leaping from the Temple had to do with how to win attention for a hearing for his message. You do not need any Evil Power sitting on a rock in front of you to be forced to deal with those kinds of concerns. They are part of life. We face them every day. How will I make this sale? How will we market this product? How will I report this incident? What will I put on my expense report?  How will I face up to this exam?       

When we struggle with those kinds of questions, are we always aware that the Tempter is involved? Or does that awareness more often come to us as hindsight, after we look back upon the incident and see how close to the precipice we came? Or when we realize that we made the wrong choice and look back in deep regret and wish that we had seen it more clearly at the time?    

What I am suggesting is that perhaps until this moment Jesus saw himself simply trying to decide some things—struggling with the issues, recalling Scriptures that would seem to offer guidance, leaning this way a little, recalling another Scripture that spoke a different word. Then this third assault comes and suddenly he knows where the others had come from as well. In telling of it afterwards, he would tell it like he realized it had really been. Note that this third temptation is the only one in which Jesus really addresses the Tempter. The other two speak about the Tempter, but only here does Jesus actually speak to the Tempter. And when he does, it is not to enter into debate, but to close the debate and walk away.   

Part of the lesson in this story might well be the reminder that the Tempter can quote Scripture, too, and we can’t assume that because a verse of Scripture quickly comes to mind that seems to support what we want to do, we have the answer to our question. Part of the lesson here is surely the reminder that the ways of the world—the dramatic and the spectacular, like leaps from the Temple—is not necessarily God’s way. And surely there is the message in this third event that all the kingdoms of this world are not worth the price the Tempter asks.    

But perhaps the deeper, underlying lesson here is: As soon as we recognize that the Tempter is  involved, it is time to walk away. You don’t debate; you don’t argue; you don’t discuss; you simply do not play that game. That game is rigged; the cards are marked; the deck is stacked; the odds are against us—say it how you will. We don’t win that game. Oh, we may win a hand now and then, but the losses invariably add up to more than the winnings.     

“You need to know when to hold them, know when to fold them; know when to walk away, know when to run.”     

Thank you, Kenny Rogers!