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Rev. Lisa McIlvenna
Where The Roots Run Deep

Sermon:
July 14, 2002
Morning Services

Scripture:
Matthew 13:1-9, 18-23

“They that have ears, let them hear…” 

There is a story about a new preacher who had just begun his first sermon. He was nervous. He was afraid that he would forget his lines and he wasn’t sure how the congregation would respond to some of the words that he had to say. He began to get more and more nervous because the congregation didn’t seem to be responding. 

About ten minutes into the talk, his mind went blank and he remembered what he had been taught in seminary. “When a situation like this arises, just remember to repeat the last point that you made. Often repeating the last point will help you to remember what comes next.”  

So he gave it a try. He said, “Behold, I come quickly.” Still his mind went blank and he could not remember what came next. He tried it again. He said, “Behold I come quickly.” And still he couldn’t remember what came next. So he tried again, “Behold I come quickly.” And as he did, he knocked over the pulpit, tripped over a potted plant, and landed in the lap of a lady sitting in the first pew. The young preacher was embarrassed and apologized to the lady. The lady said, “That’s all right young man. It was my fault. I should have gotten out of the way. You told me three times that you were coming.” 

As a preacher, I must admit that there have been times when I preached and I wondered if what I said was heard. If I had knocked over a potted plant, would anyone have known that I was coming? And I have been amazed at the things that have been heard that I didn’t think I had said. 

As parents and spouses, we often wonder about it in our families. “Oh, you wanted bread and milk? I only heard you say milk!” “Oh, I thought when you said to be home by 10 p.m., you meant just don’t stay out too late.” “Oh, I heard you say that you had a meeting that lasted until late in the evening. I didn’t hear you say anything about putting the kids to bed.” How is it that we hear some things and miss others? In my house, I refer to it as “selective listening!” We hear the things that we want to hear and are deaf to what we couldn’t care less about or don’t want to hear. 

In the gospels, there were many times when large crowds gathered to hear Jesus preach. Many were drawn by the excitement of what he had to say. But what Jesus really had to say and “letting it take root” were  altogether different. Often people would hear and try to apply only half of what Jesus was saying, and many of those differed on what half they had  heard and/or chose to emphasize. Others simply drifted away  once the excitement was over, and nothing seemed to stay with them at all. In today’s gospel, such a crowd had gathered. As the disciples stood by and watched the crowd’s confusion, many drifted away as the excitement wore into the evening. You might imagine them wondering, “Why does Jesus waste his time?” 

If I am honest as a preacher, I will admit there are times when I feel as if no one hears or “allows to take root” what I am saying. Or as a mother, I feel like I have repeatedly asked my children to do the same thing for days and weeks and they still act as if this is the first time that they have heard it. I wonder why I bother. Why did I give so much energy to those things? I begin to feel critical and resentful. 

There are times when we wrestle as a church and as individuals in relationships with others beyond our families. “Why bother sending supplies and people to inner cities? They won’t make a difference.” “Why bother helping that family? They won’t appreciate it.” “Why bother having Sunday School when only one person shows up? She won’t remember what is said.” “Why bother preparing a sermon for the Fourth of July weekend when only the already-converted will be there?” “Why knock ourselves out for just a handful of young singles when they are too busy to appreciate it anyway and don’t really give much back to the church?” “Why bother giving so much energy and time to helping him find a job when his social skills are such that he will probably lose it within a month?” “Why bother to call on her when her illness is so severe that it has affected her mind, so that she can’t communicate anyway, and I’m not sure that she knows that I am there?” “Why go to the trouble of setting up an intervention program when he’s been in and out of a dozen rehabs already, and each time he says he’s going to change but ends up right back on drugs?” 

Yet, despite the fact that it appears in today’s gospel that the crowd is not understanding, Jesus doesn’t give up. Instead, Jesus gets in a boat and begins to tell the crowd another story. “A sower went out to sow some seeds. Some seeds fell on a path and the birds came and ate them. Others fell on rocky ground where they didn’t have much soil and they sprang up quickly; but when the sun rose, they were scorched because they had no roots and they withered away. Others fell among the thorns and when the seed grew up, the thorns choked them. And finally, some fell on good soil and brought forth good grain: 100, 60 and 30 fold.” 

“Let anyone who has ears listen!!” 

In my own “selective listening,” I have heard this parable as one of judgment, suggesting that those who choose to accept and follow God’s word will be rewarded. And those who choose to live otherwise will be lost. However, a more recent and careful study of this parable, in the context in which it is written, has helped me to notice a couple of important things about Jesus in the telling of this parable. I believe this can help us better understand the dynamics of hearing and “being moved to act on” what we hear. First, Jesus demonstrates an understanding of what is happening to the crowd. Second, Jesus tells why he is able to continue teaching the crowds without becoming discouraged, feeling that it is a waste of time, or giving up when they do not hear what he has to say or when they do not allow it “to take root” in their lives. 

Let’s begin by looking at what is happening in the story. Consider the two cousins who got together for the summer. One lived in the country and the other lived in the city. The country cousin came to visit the cousin in the city. While walking through the city, the cousin from the city heard a man drop some coins. He quickly reached down to pick up the coins for the man. But the other cousin, not having heard the coins, wondered what the cousin from the city was doing. While walking down the street, the cousin from the city began to harass the other cousin about needing to get her ears checked and possibly needing a hearing aid. “How could you not hear the clanging of the coins as they hit the street?” said the cousin from the city. As the cousin was harassing her, the cousin from the country suddenly stopped and said, “Do you hear that?”  “Hear what?” asked the cousin from the city. Then the cousin from the country walked over and pointed to a cricket that was chirping inside a trash can. 

What does the story of these two cousins suggest about what is happening with the crowd? Perhaps, often our inability to hear or act upon certain things is more complicated than simply choosing to listen or not listen. “Where our lives are rooted” often determines what we hear and how we respond. 

If we were to look at the text in the chapter preceding the story of the sower, we would see several things. We would see that the Pharisees’ lives were rooted in the laws, and so what they heard on this particular day was that Jesus was threatening to break the law and therefore they acted in judgment. The lives of the demon possessed and the sick were rooted in hardship and pain. To them the laws meant nothing; but Jesus’ acts of compassion said something to them that caused them to act impulsively. The disciples’ lives were rooted in uncertainty and confusion, and they were feeling tossed and turned by the wind of persuasion and influence of others, so they acted in frustration. As for Jesus’ family, their lives were rooted in something else. What they heard was being choked out by their fear of being abandoned or humiliated by Jesus, so they acted defensively.  

Jesus, in the story of the parable, acknowledges the many types of soil (many places that our lives “can be rooted”), saying that when the seed falls upon ground that is fertile, it bears much fruit. Perhaps it invites us to wonder about our own lives. Is our soil fertile? Are we eager to hear and be moved by God’s word, God’s grace, and God’s love? Are we tilling the soil and making it ready by doing the following: intentional and deeper prayer life, study of the scripture, self reflection and assessment of our gifts and the way we use our time, or the ways we open ourselves to experiencing the wonder and growth of God’s grace in mission and outreach to others? 

As parents, we understand and preach to our teenagers: “The crowd that you hang out with (in which you plant yourself), more often than not, shapes who you become and what you do.” And so we encourage them and pray that they will find rich soil in which to plant themselves. We might wonder how much richer our lives would be and how much more fruit our lives would bear if we were as intentional and vigilant to receive the seed of God’s word, God’s grace, or God’s love. 

In fact, upon hearing this parable, we might expect to hear Jesus tell us to “Therefore, become the fertile soil.” As Christians, we are called to be the sower of the seeds and should concentrate on sowing the seed in the fertile ground. But Jesus doesn’t! The second thing that I notice about Jesus in telling the parable, is his emphasis that the sower  should  scatter seed not just in fertile soil, but everywhere, in every type of soil. 

In ancient Palestine, farming practices were not like they are today. You didn’t go into the field, plow up the land, and scatter the seeds. Instead, the farmer scattered the seed in the field, prior to plowing. Because of this, seeds fell indiscriminately among weeds, rocks, on the path, and on the good soil. When Jesus refers to God in this parable, as the sower who scatters seed upon the unplowed field (or human life), he speaks of a God who indiscriminately offers love to all of human life; complete with its pathways that have been worn down by experiences, people who have walked all over us, feelings of defeat or damaged self-esteem. He offers his love in the rocky places where jagged edges of divorce or broken relationships or other sad losses and hurtful times have cluttered life with stones. He offers his love in thorny locations, where materialism, alcoholism, workaholism, anger/resentment or illness have completely over-whelmed us. And we can’t find God’s love anymore and our view is shaded. 

Unlike the disciples, we are inclined to look at the bareness of a person’s life and his/her ability to hear and act positively upon what we might offer. We often turn away in hopelessness. But the Sower of the Seeds of Love refuses to give up on any of his children. God recognizes and understands that there are times, in all of our lives, when the ground is rocky, thorny, heavily worn, and dry. God keeps throwing onto those lives great big heaping handfuls of seed, trusting that one day, one of those seeds will slip past the pathway, the rocky way, the thorny way, and settle gently upon the deep, dark richness of fertile ground. And then the seeds will sprout, spring to life and bear fruit. 

God knows that there is fertile soil somewhere in the life of every person, despite the obvious presence of weeds and thorns and  hardened ground. Our ability to hear, receive and be moved by the seed is therefore dependent not only upon a fertile soil in which the seed can take root, but also on God’s grace and persistence in offering us the seed in whatever soil “we are rooted.” 

Lastly, the story is told of two men who spent time together in the hospital. The first man, John, was a bright and cheerful man who was dying of cancer. Every morning he would greet his roommate, Charles, with a friendly smile and cheery, “Good morning!” In response, Charles would grumble and say, “What is so good about it? Tell me one thing that is good about lying in a hospital bed, hooked up to an I.V. and waiting to have your leg amputated. At least you are next to the window and can look out.” Life had dealt harshly with Charles, who served in Vietnam, had seen many deaths and ugly scenes, and had come home a broken man. And shortly afterward, his wife left him. Now the complications of his injuries from Vietnam left him in the hospital, flat on his back, facing the possibility of not only one leg being amputated, but two.   

As John watched Charles, and listened to his bitterness, he was reminded of a time in his own life, not so long before, when he too felt bitter toward his family, toward God, and toward life.  Learning about his cancer and that he was dying, he had gone into a deep depression and didn’t want to speak to anyone. He was angered as they tried to tell him that he should celebrate the life that he did have. But his wife waited patiently with him through the depression and after a while he began to embrace life again, recognizing that it was important to enjoy each moment of every day.    

John wished that Charles could feel the way that he felt. But he didn’t know how to reach him, because Charles was often silent while staring at the wall. So John, after awhile, spent part of the day chattering. While not speaking directly to Charles, John looked out the window and chattered about what he saw. John would talk about the beautiful pond where the children gathered and played with their kites, about the young ducklings that swam on the lake, about the children who laughed and played, and about an old couple that sat on the bench sharing lunch together. Every day he would chat about what he saw out the window and he would notice that even though Charles never said a word, Charles was listening. And for those moments during the day, Charles seemed peaceful.   

After a while, John got progressively worse and died. While the nurse was preparing the room for another roommate, Charles asked if he could have the bed next to the window. The nurse moved him by the window and there he lay. After a few minutes, the new roommate arrived.  The roommate, housebound because of his health, had just had back surgery. He asked Charles if the shades could be drawn open and if he could tell him what he saw outside, if he didn’t mind.  Charles grumbled, and agreed. The nurse threw the drapes open and Charles pulled himself up onto the edge of the bed and looked out the window. What he saw was a blank cement wall.  

Tears came to Charles’ eyes. The roommate said, “What do you see out there?” Charles began, “I see a park, and in the park I see….” 

 “Let those who have ears listen!!”