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Rev. Rod Quainton
Word Scramble: Nreag
"The Anger Management Tour"

Sermon:
June 23, 2002
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Scripture:
Nahum 1:2ff
Matthew 23:13ff

How does one open a sermon that is a word scramble? Scramble being my state of mind in relation to the topic, perhaps influenced by the incongruity of working on the sermon while basking in the tranquility of Stratford from a balcony overlooking Lake Avon. I’m not presumptuous enough to say I intend to unscramble the scripture around the issue of God’s wrath and anger, but rather range over it. There you have it, the word unscrambled: anger – range. The subtitle of the sermon could either be “A & W is not a Root Beer” or “The Anger Management Tour” (which shockingly is the official name for the Eminem, Papa Roach, Ludacris, Xecutioners and Xzbit national tour). Talk about irony! Setting up our paradoxical relationship to anger: ours, others’ and God’s. The rappers’ tour begins in Buffalo and ends in Auburn Hills. So my tour shall begin in the Old Testament and end in the New Testament. 

This sermon had its genesis at a recent Arbon Dennis Men’s Group weekly gathering. Some of the best ideas surface at 6:30 AM. We were reading and discussing the chapter on “Anger” in Kathleen Norris’ wonderful book, Amazing Grace: A Vocabulary of Faith. She opens her meditation on anger as follows: “There is God’s anger, as depicted in the scriptures, so notorious that it has become a comic staple. One of the Ghostbusters, in relating to the mayor of New York the general upheaval in that city caused by evil spirits, describes it as plagues, earthquakes, real Old Testament stuff.” 

In the discussion which followed, Dr. Ritter commented that clergy can’t be angry! That while anger is one of the seven deadly sins, for clergy it is the deadliest (although lust fast appears to be gaining ground in certain circles). Why is this so? Thomas Fuller wrote in the 17th century:  “Anger is one of the sinews of the soul.” It is part and parcel of who we are. 

Therefore, in reflecting on anger, the following concerns come to mind. What is it? What is its source? How is it manifest? When is anger healthy? Can anger be healthy? What is the difference between anger and righteous indignation? What is the appropriate management of anger? 

We live in a world seemingly surrounded by anger. The therapists have countless remedies, all saying that anger is a natural emotion that needs a constructive outlet. The desert fathers, however, prescribe prayer for the deadliest of passions. Yet we are surrounded by Mike Tyson, Jihads, suicide bombers, road rage, rap lyrics, abuse of spouses and children by loved ones, parents and priests. The list seems to be getting longer! 

What is your anger story? Mine’s not pretty. Slow to anger but like a volcano when it erupts. Once, over 25 years ago, I was so angry at a minor childish infraction that I stomped on a balloon and broke my foot, cursing the balloon and the child who left it in my path. Was the child at fault? No. Was the child a target for my anger? Yes. All inappropriate behaviors. What was the origin of my anger? This is an example of what the therapists call displaced anger. I prefer to call it misplaced anger, not unlike the old saw of the breadwinner coming home after a bad day at the office and kicking the dog. Not one of my proudest moments, but at least the damage was done to me and not a third party. What’s your anger mismanagement story?

Dr. Ritter’s comment that clergy can’t afford to display anger is dead on. Early in my ministry in a place far away, I made the mistake of venting my anger with a parishioner, not for what they had done but because of how I perceived my son being treated. Justified? Perhaps. A good choice? No. I paid dearly. Hopefully I’ve learned something in the meantime. Kathleen Norris reports that the desert monks considered anger to be one of the most dangerous of human passions. The daily newspaper headlines affirm that understanding. 

If anger is part of our emotional bank, why then are we afraid of anger in ourselves, others and especially God?  Is anger a necessary part of the human and divine condition? 

Listen to the word of God from Genesis 6:5ff: “The Lord saw that the wickedness of humankind was great on the earth, and that every inclination of the thoughts of their hearts was only evil continually. And the Lord was sorry he that he had made humankind on the earth, and it grieved him to his heart. So the Lord said: ‘I will blot out from the earth the human beings I have created.’” You know the story as the prologue to Noah and the Flood. 

The prophets are always good sources for expressions of God’s anger. Listen to Isaiah 1:14-17: “Your new moons and your appointed festivals my soul hates; they have become a burden to me, I am weary of bearing them. When you stretch out your hands I will hide my eyes from you; even though you make many prayers, I will not listen: your hands are full of blood. Wash yourselves; make yourselves clean; remove the evil of your doings from before my eyes; cease to do evil, learn to do good, seek justice, rescue the oppressed, defend the orphan, plead for the widow.” 

Or Hosea 9:15: “Every evil of theirs began at Gilgal: there I came to hate them. Because of the wickedness of their deed I will drive them out of my house. I will love them no more; all their officials are rebels.” 

Now listen to the prophet Nahum, whose name ironically means “the comforter.” Nahum 1:2ff: “A jealous and avenging God is the Lord, the Lord is avenging and wrathful; the Lord takes vengeance on his adversaries and rages against his enemies. The Lord is slow to anger but great in power, and the Lord will by no means clear the guilty.” Had enough already? This passage is seldom if ever read in church. Ever heard a sermon on Nahum and the destruction of Nineveh? Talk about an angry God!

These are the kind of passages that have disturbed many in my Disciple class as we have just finished the Old Testament. The God depicted above and in stories like Sodom and Gomorrah and others horrifies us. Why are we angry that God is angry? Is it fear? Fear of our own guilt? That God’s anger might turn on us? The innocent? In the Old Testament, God holds the covenant people (the whole people of Israel) accountable, which perhaps offends our individualistic notions. Yet haven’t we all experienced punishment of the group, such as a team, for the infractions of a few? Remember those laps or push-ups because someone else was dogging it? These passages run counter to Jesus meek and mild. Where’s the God of forgiveness, we might ask? 

Let us turn to the New Testament. Jesus never gets mad, right? Listen to these passages from Matthew 23:13 ff: “Woe to you scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites because you shut out the kingdom of heaven against mankind… Woe to you…for you have neglected the weightier matters of the law, justice and mercy and faith…” Seven times, no less, Jesus inveighs against the Pharisees and Scribes in strong and no uncertain language. He calls them to task for their legalisms and narrow perspective, in effect saying they miss the picture of God’s steadfast love and mercy. Righteous indignation, if you ask me. 

Paul reports in Romans 1:18: “For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and wickedness of those who by their wickedness suppress truth,” and Romans 2:5: “But by your hard and impenitent heart you are storing up wrath for yourself on the day of wrath when God’s righteous judgment will be revealed. For he will repay according each one’s deed.” Not what I want to hear. But at least it seems to shift judgment out to the end of time. Quite frankly, there is no easy way of reconciling the wrath of the lamb in Revelation 6:17 (“For the great day of their wrath has come and who is able to stand”) with “Father forgive them, for they know not what they do” (Luke 23:24). It remains an unresolved tension in the New Testament and the entire Christian tradition. 

Living with that tension is the challenge. Much like a loving parent who must punish and hold accountable a child out of love, this tension is best portrayed in the book of Jonah 3:10-4:4. Listen: 

When God saw what they did, how they turned from their evil ways, God changed his mind about the calamities that he had said he would bring upon them (the Ninevites); and he did not do it. (Nahum refers) But this was very displeasing to Jonah, and he became angry. He prayed to the lord and said: “O Lord! Is not this what I said while I was still in my own country? That is why I fled to Tarshish at the beginning; for I knew that you are a gracious God and merciful, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love, and ready to relent from punishing. And now O Lord, please take my life from me, for it is better for me to die than to live.” And the Lord said, “Is it right for you to be angry?” 

Isn’t that where we are? Isn’t that the question for the ages? Is that why the Prodigal Son story disturbs us, in that justice does not seem done, especially to the faithful brother? Don’t we want to see the Taliban and Al Qaeda punished like Nineveh and not spared, regardless of the innocent lives lost along the way? You fill in your blanks. My anger is at Enron who has besmirched the good name of commerce for greed. Don’t spare them, I say!! God abandons his anger and Jonah becomes angry in return. Feelings of vengeance and retribution are both symptoms of anger. 

Theologians and preachers through the centuries have tackled God’s anger. Some proclaim it as the “good news” in the hell, fire and brimstone sermons that drove you from your church. Some deny the notion of God’s wrath. Not so easy, I say. The words are clear, but as in all scripture, one extreme is usually balanced by another, such that we live in the tension. For Karl Barth, the wrath of God is “nothing other than the redemptive fire of his love.” The Anglican divine and poet George Herbert has written: “Throw away thy wrath O my God, take the gentle path…then let wrath remove; love will do the deed.” In Dame Julian of Norwich’s words: “There is no wrath in God, just ourselves.” 

The issue is not so much can God be angry, but what do the scriptures tell us about the source of God’s anger? Listen again to Isaiah: “Seek justice; rescue the oppressed, defend the orphan, plead for the widow.” There you have it. God is angry at injustice. That is what all the prophets go on and on about. Those who suppress the truth, Paul tells us in Romans. Lack of penitence, we are advised. In a word, God abhors wickedness for violating the covenant by turning to false idols and treating the poor unjustly!! What then gets our anger up? 

Healthy anger, it seems to me, came in the form of Gandhi and Martin Luther King, Jr.’s non-violent resistance. Teddy Roosevelt wrote indignantly against lynching, observing that twelve- year-old boys who had been observed participating  “would be brutalized for life.” Slavery was brought down by the righteous anger of the abolitionists. William Jennings Bryan’s famous speech to the National Democratic Convention in 1896 is an example of righteous indignation:  “You shall not press down upon the brow of labor this crown of thorn. Thou shall not crucify mankind upon a cross of gold.” What are you angry about, or should I say passionate about? In our congregation, a good example of righteous indignation is a certain choir member who has a passion about the gospel imperative to care for the hungry. 

Kathleen Norris sums it up well when she writes: “God’s anger, as evidenced in the prophets and in some of the more prophetic sayings of Jesus, is an impetus to love, a command to set things right.” What is it you want to set right in your own life, in your family, in the world? 

What then is the good news? God’s anger is also taken up on the cross. So that God’s love might triumph? Listen again to Paul in Romans 5:9: “Much more surely then, now that we have been justified by his blood, will we be saved through him from the wrath of God!!!” 

What is the antidote to anger? Hear what our Lord Jesus Christ said: “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the greatest and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets” (Matthew 22:37-40). Say no more. As Shakespeare wrote: “All’s well that ends well.” It is called the Resurrection. We may dislike God’s anger, but we can not dismiss the source of God’s anger. Here endeth our anger management scramble.


 


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