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I have a friend
who was once invited to a little rural church to speak.
Because of a terrible rainstorm, they cancelled the service,
notifying everybody by telephone. But because my friend wasn’t
reachable by phone, the notification missed him. So he drove
out into the boondocks of Oklahoma, slipping and sliding along
the muddy roads. Two of the men thought about the fact that
the guest preacher might not know they wouldn’t be
"having church," so they went to the sanctuary to
wait for him, just in case he showed up. Which he did, finding
them seated at the table down front….the one that had the
words "In Remembrance of Me" carved into the facing….and
they were playing cards.
"What in the
world are you doing?" my friend asked.
They said:
"We’re just playing a little poker, waiting for you to
come."
"On that
table?" my friend said.
"Well,"
said one of them, "the way I look at it, a table’s a
table’s a table."
To which my friend
said: "No it isn’t. No it isn’t. At least, not for
me."
Some tables have
an importance, far beyond their size, shape or construction. I’ll
bet a lot of you can still remember the dining room table in
the home of your childhood….and may still have the dining
room table from the home of your childhood. Or your
grandmother’s table. Or the first kitchen table you bought
because, if you were going to be married and start sleeping
over, you had to have some place to eat breakfast.
My 27-year-old,
single, male nephew recently extracted his grandmother’s
table from our basement. I’m not sure why he wanted it. It’s
not a young man’s table. It’s not mod or stylish, sleek or
trim. It’s not a Friday night, gather your buddies, drink
beer and play poker till 3:00 a.m. table. And it’s not like
my nephew can’t afford a table. He can afford any table he
wants. So why his grandmother’s table? You know the answer
as well as I do.
As I said last
Maundy Thursday, tables are symbols of our civility. More than
any other piece of furniture, they suggest how far we have
come as a culture, a people or a family. Listen to the phrase:
"If we can just get everyone to the table." Do you
hear the hope in that? Sure you do….whether the issue be
carving a turkey or signing a treaty.
This is Table Day
in the life of Christendom. Second only to Maundy Thursday,
this is the penultimate Table Day in the life of the Christian
church. Because, on this day, we break the bread and lift the
cup together….all across the world….in solidarity, if not
perfect unity. Broken though we may be….by everything from
time zones to ideologies….on this one day, the table (and
the cloth that covers it) are seamless.
Holy Communion!
Why do we do it? Lots of reasons….some of which we, in the
Christian church, still fight over. How do we do it? Lots of
ways….some of which we, in the Christian church, still fight
over. Does it always lead to a powerful religious experience?
Probably not. On those perfunctory, mechanical,
how-long-is-this-going-to-take (and how-soon-can-I-get-out-of-
here) days, I suppose the most that might be said is that,
upon rising from the table, we will have remembered Jesus. But
on those days when the membrane that separates things temporal
from things eternal, things seen from things unseen, is
stretched a little thinner than usual….or maybe even splits
for just a crack….the best that might be said is that, upon
rising from the table, we have experienced Jesus.
"Do this and
I’ll be there," he said. Which is sometimes called
"the Doctrine of Real Presence." And while most of
us don’t go as far down that road as the Roman Catholics do
(literal body, literal blood, in a holy and mystical form of
cannibalism), I have yet to meet a Christian who professes a
"Doctrine of Real Absence." Which is to say that
Jesus is here somehow, some way, somewhere….in this moment….at
this table….through this act. We do this with him.
And with each
other. "Drink ye all of this," was the way the
preacher put it when I was a boy. Which did not mean "all
of the liquid" but "all of the people." I got
it backwards in those days. When I was a child, I equated the
preacher with my mother: "Finish your juice. Drink it
all. Don’t leave any in the bottom of the glass….the
bottom of the cup….the bottom of the chalice."
But the preacher
was not my mother. And Jesus is not my mother. The words
"drink ye all" relate to the people around, not the
contents within. I am talking about people I can’t
necessarily name, but people I must try to visualize.
There was once a
preacher who went back to his boyhood church….a little
congregation, scarcely bigger than the proverbial church in
the wildwood….where he was surprised to discover that they
had acquired a sanctuary full of beautiful new windows. They
were stained glass.… leaded…. brilliantly colored. He
couldn’t figure how they could afford it. But that wasn’t
all he couldn’t figure. He began reading the names (the
dedications in the windows), failing to recognize a single
name. And he was reared there. So he asked the pastor if the
dedications represented people who joined up since he left.
"No,"
said the pastor. "A church in St. Louis ordered these
windows from Italy, and when they got them, they didn’t fit.
So they put an advertisement in a church paper saying they
would sell them cheap to any church willing to give them a
home."
When asked about
the unfamiliar names etched into the windows, the pastor said:
"Well, the Board discussed that and decided against
coloring them out"….adding that, "It’s good for
our little church to realize there are some Christian people
besides us."
Well, it’s good
for all of us….even here, where there’s a lot of us. Could
I but scan the table this morning, I’d see people I’ve
supped with from the Upper Room in Jerusalem to a jungle room
in Costa Rica. And that’s just for starters. I’ve got
family breaking bread this morning in Prague, in London, all
over Israel, all over Great Britain, down South, up North, in
tens of towns and hundreds of churches.
As many of you
know, I am not terribly domestic. But one of my jobs at the
parsonage is to put the extra leaves in the dining room table
at holiday time. We store them behind the winter coats in the
first floor closet. But my whole house….which is a wonderful
house.…wouldn’t be able to hold all the leaves required,
were all of my friends in Christ to show up on the same day.
And those are only the friends I know.
One of them wrote
me Friday from a little town on the Sussex coast of England. I
haven’t seen her for over 20 years. I served her church for
a summer once. She has sent me a Christmas card every year
since. This letter, occasioned by something other than
Christmas, begins:
Following the
travesty in your country on September 11, I just wanted to
tell you that you are all being held in our prayers….mine
personally….and those of my church, my prayer cell, and my
house group.
And the rest of
the page is filled with handwritten prayers. The last
concludes with her personal reflection on Psalm 46. You know
Psalm 46. At least you know the following lines:
God is our hope
and strength, a very present help in time of trouble.
Therefore, we will not fear, though the earth be moved.
To which she adds:
"The earth has moved. Please, God, help us." Isn’t
it amazing how endearing we Americans have become to the rest
of the world in the face of our suffering?
We come to this
table with him. We come to this table with each other. And, in
ways I can’t begin to explain, we come to this table with
those who have taken an earlier bus to Glory. They are not
here, some of them. They should be. They were here once. They
are not here now. And there are days when their absence speaks
as eloquently as did their presence. But just as there are
empty places at our table (where they have been, but are not
now), I think there are empty places at their table (where we
are going, but are not yet).
While raising the
cup, Jesus said to his disciples: "This is the last time
I shall drink with you here. But the day shall come when I
shall drink with you there" (the operative words in that
sentence being "with you"). Meaning that the
Sacrament is given by Jesus to tide us over, to see us
through, to keep us keeping on….until we shall be one with
Jesus….one with each other…. and one with those who, as
the poet says, "we have loved long since, yet lost a
while." Or, as we shall soon sing:
Feast after
feast thus comes and passes by,
And passing, points to the glad feast above.
They were one with
us in life. They remain one with us in death. And quite apart
from the fact that their future may one day be ours, our fight
(in the present moment) continues to be theirs. As Colin
Morris loves to say: "We must not, in assessing our
strength, ignore those regiments camped over the hill."
For as we shall soon hear in the Great Thanksgiving, we are
joined with "all the company of heaven." My friends,
we are incredibly well supported.
Do me a favor as
we close. Picture, in your mind’s eye, a piece of paper.
Picture also a pen. Now picture yourself making a list….a
list of names. It is a list you are going to add to from time
to time and keep with you over time….even if you have to
leave everything else behind (car, boat, books, furniture,
computer, whatever). In fact, when your life is ended and you
have to leave the earth, take it with you (your list, I mean).
Now I know, I
know, I know. When you get to the gate, Peter’s going to
say: "Look, you know the rules. You went into the world
with nothing, you’ve got to come out of it with nothing. So
what’s that in your hand?"
And you’ll say:
"Well, it’s just a list."
"A
list?"
"Yes, just a
list with some names."
"So let me
see it."
"Well, it’s
just the names of folks who helped me….people who, if it
weren’t for them, I’d have never made it."
To which Peter
will say (again): "I want to see it."
So you’ll give
it to him. And he’ll smile and say: "I know ‘em all.
In fact, on my way to the gate, it seems like I passed ‘em
all. They were painting a great, big sign to hang over the
street. I didn’t see it real close, but it looked (for all
the world) like they were fixin’ to write WELCOME
HOME."
My friends, what
if you could see even a fraction of all those people at the
table? And what if you could see Jesus at the table? Would it
make your life any easier….your road any smoother…. your
landings any softer? Maybe. Maybe not. But I guarantee you
this. You would not be lonely. Or hungry.
Note: In preparing
this meditation for World Communion Sunday, I hauled out no
small number of "heavy hitters" in my dugout of
supporters. They include Colin Morris, Barbara Brown Taylor,
Fred Craddock and William Barclay. The letter from England
came from Frances Nightingale who is a member of the
Rustington Methodist Church on the West Sussex coast. I served
the Rustington church on a pastoral exchange in 1975 and later
hosted a youth orchestra conducted by her husband, Peter, in
1980.
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