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Dr. Richard Cheatham
Can You Make the Buttons Even?

Sermon:
September 5, 1999

Scripture:
Matthew 6:31-33

I spent my early years on the southeast side of Detroit. Even though we lived one short block from school, in winter we bundled up for that one block hike: jacket, gloves, knitted cap, scarf, boots - the whole nine yards! (Michigan winters are the main reason I moved to San Antonio.) Mom always gave us a full breakfast, over which I dawdled. If my grandmother was visiting we usually engaged in some kind of banter or debate. If granddad was there we might talk - if he felt like talking. At any rate, I would watch in fascination as he sprinkled black pepper onto his milk before every swig. At some point my mother would warn, "Dick, if you don't hurry you're going to be late." I then would jam on my jacket, and while putting on gloves, scarf, and head gear, I would button up (starting somewhere in the middle of the jacket). Invariably I would feel one collar around my ear and know I had made a mess of things. So I would turn to mom and ask, "Can you make the buttons even?" My mom would begin to unbutton the jacket, and as she began anew with the lowest button she would say, "Dick, if you get it right at the bottom it will come out right at the top."

When school was over I usually rushed to go home with my brother. He was older and wiser. He knew the way home. It felt safer to walk with him with all the older kids around. I would rush to meet him, buttoning my coat as I went. By the time I got to him I could feel the collar around my ear and knew it had happened again. Then I would ask him, "Can you make the buttons even?" George would look at me with the disgusted but gentle look only an older brother can manage, undo the buttons, and begin anew with the lowest. Then he would say to me, "Dick, if you get it right at the bottom it will come out right at the top."

Through the years I have many occasions to remember those words about the buttons. Sometimes it's when I rush the dressing process. More often it is not when my clothes do not fit, but when my life does not fitting correctly. When I finally stop grousing about other people messing up my life, I hear the words of my older brother - not George - but my brother and my Lord, Jesus Christ. ("If you get it right at the bottom it will come out right at the top.") Then he begins to help me undo the wrong buttons and begin anew, starting with the basics.

Through thirty eight years of ministry I have had many good people come into my office to chat. After a bit of chitchat they often begin to share the real reason for their visit. In one way or another they tell me their lives do not fit as they should. They feel choked, ill suited, bedraggled . . . misfitted. I am sometimes tempted to say to them, "Seek first the Kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things shall be yours, as well." However, I resist that temptation. They would probably respond, "That's what we are trying to do, Dick." and they would be telling the truth. They are good people who believe they are trying to do God's will.

The Kingdom of God is an elusive goal - difficult to find. It becomes ever more elusive with the passage of time. We understand Jesus' words quite differently than the people to whom he spoke in the first century. Try as I might, whenever I hear the term, "Kingdom of God," I envision something akin to Disney's Magic Kingdom, complete with castle and walls. The Greek word we translate as "kingdom" is basilea. When the people of biblical times heard "basilea" they did not picture a castle with walls. The envisioned what the people of Great Britain do when they say "United Kingdom." They picture what we do when we hear the word "Nation." To seek the Kingdom of God. Quite simply, is to seek to become the nation of God - the people of God, with God as ruler.

If they were to ask, "How can we do that?" I could not imitate Glinda, the good witch of the north and say, "Just follow the yellow brick road. Follow the yellow brick road." As I said, the Kingdom is elusive. Jesus, himself, said the road is narrow. What makes it even more difficult to locate is a prevailing American philosophy which distorts everything we try to do as Christians. It is not a stated philosophy. Still, it dominates our thinking. It is "materialism." Materialism is not greed. True, it may lend itself to that in some cases. Materialism is the belief that material things are paramount. Things will bring happiness. Good things will make life better. A good educational facility will produce better students. When I consider that I recall that the best Sunday school class I had as a youngster was held in the church's furnace room (an appropriate setting for twelve year old boys, perhaps). It was Mr. Vigor's class. If he had held it in the back alley, it still would have been the best class I ever had.

Materialism says that a better house will make a happier family. A new automobile will make traffic more bearable . . . on 696, 275, Telegraph or Southfield . . . (Sure!) New clothing or gadgets will make you feel better. There is an element of truth in this. Nice things can create convenience, comfort, a feeling of well-being - of being successful. However, the good feeling fades quickly and we need to purchase still more things to keep those good feeling going. The fact that this congregation conducts two highly successful rummage sales every year says something about our involvement in materialism. We keep buying newer and better things and have to discard the older. Other people, in turn, come to buy our discards, believing them to be newer and better than what they have. There is nothing wrong with wanting and having nice things - so long as we realize that people are for loving and things are for using. If we find ourselves loving things and using people, we are in trouble.

When I was appointed to the church in Brighton, I was told that the divorce rate was exceptionally high. Sociologists called it "The Livingston County Syndrome," and came to study it. Nationally, the divorce rate is fifty percent. Would you care to guess how high it was in Livingston County? Who says seventy percent? Eighty? Ninety? One hundred? More than a hundred? If you guessed this, you are correct. How do you get more than one hundred percent? It's computed like the death rate. If you want to be technical, the death rate is one hundred percent (give or take a few characters from the Old Testament). Actually, it is a ratio of births to deaths. So it is with divorces. How many marriages? How many divorces? In Livingston County there were more divorces than marriages every year. I did more counseling in my eleven years at Brighton than in all my other years of ministry combined. Most, unfortunately, ended in divorce. However, after I left Brighton, I realized that of all the couples I had counseled, only two who were both actively involved in the church prior to any problems surfacing in their marriage, were divorced. "The family that prays together, stays together?" Perhaps. Was it that they were both on a common spiritual pilgrimage? Maybe. Was it the discipline of giving themselves to something larger than themselves? Possibly. Was it the sanction and support of a caring Christian community? That, too. It may have been a combination of all those factors. It may have been that they were farther along in seeking the Kingdom than most of those whom I counseled in that county.

So how do we find the Kingdom of God? The key is to be found in a word we tend to ignore: "righteousness." Jesus said, "Seek first the Kingdom of God and his righteousness." The word we translate as "righteousness" is dikaiosune. It does not just mean, "We don't smoke and we don't chew and we don't go with girls who do." To be sure, it includes playing by the rules, but it also implies "making right that which is wrong." Make right what is not right. Make work what is not working. Let me give you an example of how this looks in real life:

When I was at seminary, Dr. Clarence Jordan was a guest preacher of the quarter. Clarence was a brilliant Greek and New Testament scholar, and a rich and courageous spirit. He did not translate Greek literally. Rather, he took the meaning of the Greek and - being generally true to the syntax, he translated it into current "Americanese." Coming from Georgia, he used the vernacular of southeastern United States. His works are called the Cotton Patch Versions. Clarence had also founded the interracial cooperative community of Americus, outside of Atlanta back in the '50, when that was not considered either wise or acceptable.

At chapel, Clarence told the story of the rich young man. The young man drove up in his stretch limo. His driver double parked and stepped out to dust off the car while the young man (in a hurry because his time was valuable) pushed his way through the crowd, caught Jesus' attention and asked him how he might gain eternal life. As he spoke, Jesus sized him up - so insulated by his money and full of his own importance that he was oblivious to the others around him. Still, Scripture tells us that Jesus looked deep into him and loved him. So he said to him, "Son, you've got the money sickness real bad! You've got to get rid of it. Give all that money away to the poor. Take up your cross and follow me, then you'll be part of the God Movement (that's what Clarence called the Kingdom of God).

Clarence told us he preached that sermon one night and later, while he was in a cafe having pie and coffee, a young man came up to him and inquired, "Dr. Jordan, did you mean what you said tonight?" Clarence replied, "If I preached it, I meant it!" The young man then responded, "I'm afraid I may have that money sickness. You see, when I was still a teenager I made a vow that I would have a million dollars by the time I was thirty." (that was back in the '50 when a million was worth more than it is today). Then he added, "Today I went to my account and got this appraisal of my worth." He then gave a paper to Clarence, who looked it over and said, "Son, you've got it baaaaad!" The young man said, "What can I do? Can I tithe?" Clarence stopped him with, "You heard what the Master said, son. You've got it bad. You've got to get rid of it all." At that, the young man took the report back, put in his pocket, and walked away. Clarence said that a year`later he was in that area and the young man approached him and said, "I did it!" Clarence responded, "You did what?" The young man said, "I gave it all away." Clarence said his reaction was, "I'll be da-- (it was almost enough to make a preacher swear)." The young man continued, "I saved just enough to buy a small hardware store. My wife and I work together and we are having more fun than we've ever had."

Clarence died before I saw him again. Now let me play Paul Harvey and tell you "The rest of the story." The young man was taken by Clarence. He moved to Koinonia Farms and used his business skills to put them on strong financial footing. When Clarence died Millard Fuller became their leader. One day, while the community was doing a "house raising" for new arrivals, Millard begin thinking that it was not right that there were so many homeless people in our country. He believed there were good people like the ones at Koinonia Farms who would be willing to help "raise a house" for other people in the community where they lived. So he put the idea to the test and began (you probably guessed it by now) "Habitat for Humanity." Had he continued to work for money and things, he well might be worth over one hundred million dollars today. If he had tithed, he would have given ten million away. As it is, he has done far more good than money could have done. Habitat has built more homes than his money could have. Additionally, they have generated community spirit, and given people the dignity of helping to build their own homes. All this occurred because one man decided to seek the Kingdom of God and his righteousness - to make things right: first in his personal life and relationships, then in his community, then in his country.

One more! When I arrived in San Antonio I learned that they had a professional basketball team, the Spurs, which had never won a championship in their twenty six year history ( As a lifelong Lions fan, I knew I would feel right at home there). They had a super star player, David Robinson, who spoke comfortably about God and Jesus Christ. A new super star had arrived the year before: Tim Duncan. Yet the team was not a winner. This year, David was asked to relinquish his offensive role and focus on defense. That meant no more headlines for his heroics - no more being the "go to guy." He would become one of the supporting players. Yet, David agreed to do this, "for the good of the team." That caught my attention. I suspected that he might walk the walk as well as he talked the talk. Here was a person willing to make right what was wrong at his personal expense. I had to learn more about this man, so I read what was printed about him. David thought it was not right that the children in the southeast part of the city did not have the cultural opportunities that those in the north had. So he and his wife donated five million dollars to help erect and fund a cultural center there. It is now open and operating, incidentally. The people in south San Antonio can attend concerts, plays and lectures of genuine value. David also decided it was not right that the poorer children had no hope of college. He told the entire fifth grade of a middle school that if they graduated from high school he would give them two thousand dollars each for tuition to a college or trade school. When fifty plus of those students graduated from the same high school, David and his wife attended - and listened to all the commencement addresses (and other speeches). When asked about his sacrifice, David asked, "What sacrifice? We felt like proud parents of more than fifty great kids." He also believes it is not right that people should be hungry in this land of plenty, so he developed the "Feed My Sheep" program in San Antonio.

As you may know, the Spurs won the NBA Championship. When David was asked about the party that followed, he replied that they were asking the wrong man. He had promised his young son that if the Spurs won he could sleep in bed with him. So even in the flush of a first victory, he knew his priorities. He took his son and went home. I also loved his response when he was asked to kiss the trophy: "I never kiss anything that can't kiss me back!" (People are for loving. Things are for using.). He also said that though the hardware (trophy and championship rings) were nice, what the players would remember and treasure was the trust they developed as a team. The teamwork. The genuine caring. The deeds they accomplished. The adventure together. That is what really mattered to them .

Somehow I believe this is what Jesus was trying to tell us when he said to seek first God Kingdom and its righteousness. If we want our lives to work right - to fit right, then we do not look to others to make that happen. We must first learn what is and is not working in our lives. We can not blame others for our failures. Then with Jesus as our guide and our support, we unbutton those things that do not fit and start anew. We begin to make right what can be made right in our lives and in our relationships - and in our community.

If we get it right at the bottom it will come out right at the top. Amen


 


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