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From time
to time, I am met by a visitor at the close of the service
whose sole purpose in waiting for me is to get me to sign
his bulletin. Don't get the wrong idea. He is not seeking
my autograph. What he is seeking is my verification that he
has been present in our sanctuary. At issue is his attendance
record and his desire to keep it spotless. Back home (in his
own church) it is easy to have his presence noted and marked.
But on vacation, he apparently feels some need of proof. So
he takes home a bulletin signed by the pastor.
One such
visitor was not even content with my signature. He wanted
me to write a note to his pastor, so that his pastor would
be sure to believe him. I can't imagine his pastor calling
him a liar. But what do I know? It's possible he was going
for some major attendance record (32 years - no misses), or
perhaps he had reached the finals of some attendance contest,
where a trip to Israel (by way of Hawaii) was first prize.
I have
never been high on record-keeping or record-rewarding, although
I am sure I earned one or two Sunday school attendance pins
in my day. Such systems tend to produce the kinds of compulsive
behaviors that the Gospel seeks to correct, while seducing
people into doing a very good thing for a very poor reason.
Still, I find myself wishing that more of my parishioners
would take such matters with similar seriousness. I tend to
take them so myself. If you total up the last 35 years of
Sabbaths, I doubt that I've averaged one missed Sunday a year.
Which has less to do with working for the corporation than
with responding to a need. I don't know that I am necessarily
compulsive about being in church, but I experience a certain
awkwardness (and a not-inconsequential emptiness) when I miss
a Sunday.
Chris
Hall and I talk about this from time to time. If Chris had
his druthers, no chorister or bell-ringer would ever be anywhere
else but here. Especially on Sunday mornings when music is
scheduled, expected and assumed. Chris hates to hear that
the people he is counting on are planning to be absent. But
the things Chris most hates to hear are the excuses rendered
for the absences. Actually, where excuses are concerned, Chris
has mellowed over the years. Deaths in the family ... complicated
brain surgeries ... plagues on the household ... he understands
such things. But lesser things still irritate him. Which is
true of us all. Still, for Chris, the issue is not so much
professional as personal. As a man whose life is organized
around (and empowered by) weekly worship, he wonders how so
many others can live, week after week, without the support
and encouragement an hour like this affords.
The scriptures
make it clear that Jesus worshiped regularly. We find repeated
references to his Sabbath-day presence in synagogues. In today's
text, the one where Jesus goes public with his ministry in
his home town of Nazareth, we read in Luke 4:16 that he went
to the synagogue on the Sabbath day "as was his custom."
Strange phrase ... "as was his custom." It occurs
only twice in the New Testament. We find it in Luke 4:16,
describing the priority Jesus placed on public worship. And
we find it in Luke 22:37 (when Jesus went "as was his
custom" to the Mount of Olives), describing the priority
Jesus placed on private prayer.
I discovered
all of this by reading a wonderful little book by Bill Hinson
entitled, The Power of Holy Habits. It is Hinson's
contention that well-cultivated habits (such as worship and
prayer) expand rather than constrict our spiritual lives.
But he also warns those of us who preach such things, that
we ought never do so in ways that make them sound like "duties,"
but in ways that make them sound like "opportunities."
People have enough "shoulds" and "oughts"
in their lives, without the church becoming one more "should-house,"
from which escape is sought at the earliest opportunity. Rather,
such habits (rightly understood) are like threads woven into
cables, of the kind that support us, secure us, and keep us
from falling.
That makes
sense to me. And it would appear that it made sense to Jesus,
too. In fact, I got to thinking about Jesus attending his
home town synagogue. It couldn't have been a very "big
time" place. I wonder how many bad sermons he heard there?
I wonder how many less-than-prepared teachers he listened
to there? I wonder how many hypocrites he sat next to there?
And given all that he must have found himself in disagreement
with there, I wonder why he went? Perhaps our only clue is
contained in the notion that "it was his custom."
But given Jesus' willingness to discard other customs that
did not fit his greater purpose, why the tendency to hold
onto this one ... unless it was more central to his self-understanding
than many of us find it to be to ours.
The late
Dr. Howard Thurman, beloved Dean of the Chapel at Boston University,
was known for his habit of assigning 50-page papers on the
prayer and devotional life of Jesus. On the bottoms of such
papers, once returned, could often be found variations on
a single hand-written comment: "I hope you have learned
through this experience that one does not worship and pray
in order to become religious, but to be true to the grain
in one's own wood."
What a
marvelous phrase: "...to be true to the grain in one's
own wood." Every wood grain is distinctive. Every wood
grain is rich. Every wood grain is deep. But any finish carpenter
knows that relatively few things will draw the grain out,
compared with any number of things that will mar, scratch,
or cover the grain up. I think some of us have discovered
the truth of Dr. Thurman's observation, and (with Bill Hinson)
have discerned which "holy habits" have the highest
potential for drawing out our grain.
Having
owned my bias about the centrality of public worship, it is
my intention to keep the rest of this sermon simple, speaking
of three related matters ... the priority of worship, the
place of worship, and the person of worship ... before putting
this little exercise to bed, singing a hymn and allowing you
to ride off to embrace whatever may be left of summer's first
glorious weekend.
The
priority of worship. When a colleague of mine was appointed
to his first student church, his immediate neighbor in that
remote rural community was a single mother with several small
children. In conversations across the fence, he kept suggesting
she bring her kids to Sunday school, and herself to worship.
She kept finding excuses that were every bit the equal of
his urgings. She couldn't begin to get them all ready in time,
she said. Her house was a bedlam, she said. Getting everybody
fed, bathed and dressed by 9:00 (without the clean ones getting
dirty as the dirty ones were getting clean) was a physical
impossibility, she said.
So, armed
with the zeal found only among the idealistic, my colleague
set his alarm clock one Sunday morning for 6:00, thus enabling
him to stand knocking on her door at 6:30. She came, at long
last, stumbling to the door, minus make-up, curlers, or anything
other than a flannel nightgown and a terry cloth robe she
was still trying to wrap around her. "What do you want?"
she said. "It's still the middle of the night."
"I've
come to help you get ready for Sunday school and church,"
he answered. "Would you rather have me bathe the kids?
Or would you rather have me start by cooking breakfast?"
Which
led her to respond: "What I really want is for you to
go home. But if you will go home, we will be in church by
9:00." Which she was ... from that day forward. Later,
she was to confess to that same young pastor: "I guess
it had been a possibility all the time. What it had not been
was a priority.
Some of
us come to that understanding earlier ... and easier ... than
others. Along about the sixth or seventh grade, I decided
what I needed to do, worship-wise, to keep my life (and my
act) together. As did the late William Few, beloved former
President of Duke University. It seems that President Few
was walking to the Duke Chapel one Sunday morning in a downpour,
when some students recognized him and offered him a ride.
Once in their car, they asked why he had decided to go to
church that morning, given the fact that it was such a rainy
day. To which he is said to have replied: "I didn't decide
to go to church this morning. I decided that matter 55 years
ago, and it has been a settled issue ever since."
Glen Reimers
would have liked that answer. Glen Reimers (along with his
wife, three kids, and his father-in-law) joined my former
church two months after I arrived as its preacher. Then one
day, at age 69, Glen walked into Arby's, ordered a roast beef
sandwich, and died. Just like that. Glen was one of those
guys who never said much about his faith. But open the door
... he was there. Call for a volunteer ... he was there. Surface
a need ... he was there.
Over the
passage of time, Glen's oldest grew up, got a job, rented
an apartment, and set up housekeeping on his own. But since
Glen's wife (Helen) was one of those women who believed in
the big Sunday dinner routine, that son always managed to
drop by the house on Sunday, just about the time the roast
was coming out of the oven. And Glen liked seeing him, every
bit as much as Helen liked feeding him. But something about
that arrangement grated on Glen, until one day he took his
son aside and said: "Tom, you know we love seeing you.
And you know we'd never let you starve. But Sunday dinner
at our house has always kinda been something we eat when we
come home from church, so much so that (to my mind) it's a
package deal. And I hope you'll take this in the right spirit.
But I also hope you'll think twice before you automatically
assume that without showing up in church, you can just go
on showing up here every Sunday."
I'd like
to be able to say that Tom was in church the following Sunday.
As I remember it, he wasn't. I don't imagine he was at the
dinner table the following Sunday, either. I do know we eventually
began to see a little more of Tom. As for me, I don't know
if I could say something like that ... or stick by it, once
I'd said it. But Glen could. And did. In part, because he
believed that strongly in the priorities and habits he lived
by. And he believed ... without strong-arming anybody ...
that such priorities could do as much for his son as they
had done for him.
The
place of worship. Does one have to do it here? No! Does
one have to do it in a place that looks like here? No! Can
one do it anywhere? Yes! But the fact is, most of us don't.
We tend to worship most naturally in the present, in those
locations where we have worshiped most fruitfully in the past.
The other
night Kris and I went to a pub ... an Irish pub ... in downtown
Birmingham ... to listen to a priest talk about prayer. You
probably read about this (as did we) in the newspaper . Down
at Dick O'Dow's, they've started this thing called "Theology
on Tap." It takes place every Tuesday night at 7:30.
A priest from Cardinal Maida's staff leads the discussion.
There is a different topic every week. Prayer was the topic
being served up last Tuesday ... along with burgers ... beer
... and ice-cold glasses of lemonade.
The place
was packed. We had to stand ... in a back hall ... just inside
the alley door ... where we couldn't see squat. To the degree
I could scan the crowd, I noticed it was multi-aged. Not as
young as I expected. And not as non-churched as I expected.
There was a lot of good talk about prayer. But we didn't do
any praying ... not that I expected we would. Meaning that
everybody talking 'bout worshiping, ain't necessarily worshiping
... if such distinctions matter ... as I kinda think they
do.
Other
people are fond of telling me that golf courses are great
places for worship. This strikes me as being somewhat accurate,
given the number of times I have heard God's name mentioned
there. As for me, golf is a sufficiently difficult game to
master, to the degree that I'd rather not "muddy up"
my attempts to play it by trying to worship at the same time.
I can't remember to keep my head down, knees flexed, shoulders
square and backswing slow, let alone trying to "praise
God from whom all blessings flow" at the same time.
But it's
not an either-or issue (golf courses versus sanctuaries, Irish
pubs versus wayside chapels, canyons versus cathedrals, etc.)
Jesus preached on hillsides. Jesus prayed in boats. But Jesus
was grounded in regular visits to the synagogue "as was
his custom." The power was in the continuity. The continuity
was in the habit. And the habit was rooted in the particularity
of a place ... to which he repeatedly returned.
I do understand
that, where worship is concerned, familiarity sometimes breeds
contempt. After all, listen to the disparaging tone of voice
with which most of us say the words: "Same old, same
old." And which explains why the most passionate testimonies
I hear (concerning worship in this church) are often from
people who move away from it and find they can't replace it,
or from people who come freshly to it and tell me they have
never seen anything like it.
Following
our Pentecost celebration, one of you told me about your friends
from Russia. There were five in all. One had worshipped here
previously. The other four had come for the first time, just
that morning. Even with limitations of language, they "got"
most of the sermon. They were surprised to see everyone smiling
and dressed in bright-colored clothing. Said the endocrinologist
from Moscow: "In my church (which is Protestant, not
Orthodox) it is very dark inside. The minister wears a robe
with much gold on it. Every one is very serious. No one smiles.
And I leave church, feeling I can never be good enough to
be a Christian. Often, upon departing, I feel physically ill."
They found
the sermon to be uplifting. And they also enjoyed the richness
of the music, including the trio of "Songs of Joy"
singers ... who, in her church, would have been told they
were going "straight to Hell." Like I said, the
most interesting testimonies come from the lips of strangers.
The
person of worship. By "person," I don't mean
"your person," but the person of our Lord and Savior,
Jesus Christ. High on the list of criteria of Christian worship
is the degree to which any activity, so named, draws us closer-to,
on the way to becoming more-one-with, Jesus Christ.
Remember
the story about the trip that Mary and Joseph made with Jesus
to Jerusalem when Jesus was but 12 years old? Remember how
they lost him, leaving him behind in the Temple when they
started back to Nazareth? It was an oversight that had nothing
to do with bad parenting. Leaving him behind was easy. Whenever
there were important religious festivals in Jerusalem, whole
towns traveled together. Men walked with men. Women walked
with women. Jesus was just with the other group. Right? Right!
Until night came and Mary and Joseph touched base, only to
realize each had "assumed" he was elsewhere in the
company (Luke 2:44).
My friends,
I have got to believe that one of life's most shocking realizations
is to have traveled a long way down life's highway, only to
come to a longer, darker night, and realize you have only
"assumed" Jesus to be in your company. There may
be worse things in the world than losing sight of Jesus. And
one of them is to lose sight of Jesus and not even know when
and where you lost him. Which is one of the things that worship,
as a periodic check point, is meant to correct.
All of
which you may already know. And some of which you may already
believe. So much so, that some of you may be smugly saying:
"This message is not for me. This message is for those
who are not here."
Maybe
so. But I like Bill Hinson's response to such assertions.
Says Bill:
Growing
up on the farm, we would occasionally try to catch all the
hogs in order
to smear them with some awful concoction designed to keep
fleas, ticks and
a host of other critters off their backs. And my father
would say: "Now boys,
there will be some hogs you will never catch. So put an
extra dose on
those you do, and trust that (sooner or later) they'll rub
up against the rest."
My friends,
having done a little preaching ... we're going to do a little
singing ... and then we're all going to fan out and do a little
rubbing ... that the grain of our wood might show and shine
... and that the Christ we have caught in this place might
be contagious.
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