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When I
reached what I thought was my lowest point, somebody said
to me: "Cheer up; things could be worse." So I cheered
up and, sure enough, things got worse.
That line
did not originate with me. But it could have been written
by this poor, unnamed man in Luke's little parable. The man
once harbored a demon. Then the demon left, or was expelled
... the story doesn't say. The demon wandered the desert in
search of lodging. Finding none, it returned to the man. In
the meantime, the man had swept, scrubbed and tidied his soul.
So the demon went out and collected seven demons worse than
itself. Whereupon, they entered in. And the Bible says that
the man's "last state" was considerably worse than
his first.
It's a
great little story ... easy to visualize, albeit hard to understand.
And don't blow any chance at understanding by getting all
hung up on whether you believe in demons. What you think doesn't
matter. What matters is what people thought in Jesus' day.
And, concerning that, there is little room for doubt. First
century folk believed in demons. They believed that demons
caused illness. They believed that demons caused dementia.
They believed that demons caused depression. And they believed
that demons caused deviancy. Much of this belief they borrowed
from the Persian and Iranian cultures of their day. And it's
possible that Jesus believed exactly as they did. But it's
also possible that Jesus simply worked within the cultural
assumptions of his time. I'm not equipped to solve such questions
here. Come join one of my classes. That's where I worry about
such things.
In present-day
conversations, however, I hear precious little talk of demons.
People seldom tell me that demons have entered them ... or
left them. To be sure, I have met a few people who have talked
that way. But not many. Some people come close when they say
things like: "I just don't know what's gotten into me"
... or "Whatever possessed me do to something like that?"
But when I push them, they shy away from demon-talk as such.
I think
it fair to say that whatever was bothering this man was both
personal and powerful. I think it also fair to say that it
was disagreeable and uncomfortable. But then it left. How?
Nobody knows. Why? Nobody knows. To go where? Nobody knows.
It just left. The man felt better. He breathed a big sigh
of relief. He slept nights. He smiled more. He sang in the
shower. People began telling him that he looked like his old
self. And it must have felt like a monkey off his back ...
a breath of fresh air in his lungs ... and a new broom sweeping
clean.
Which
is what Luke said. This man was like a tidied-up house. He'd
gone through and swept out the corners, ridding the place
of crud and cobwebs. He'd gotten it in order. He'd gotten
it together. Then, whatever left, came back. Worse than before.
Seven times worse than before. And why was that? Because,
as Luke tells us, the demon couldn't find anyplace else to
go. For it was believed, don't you see, that demons couldn't
just run loose. They had to lodge somewhere.
Remember
the story of the man who lived in the territory of the Gadarenes?
That man was full of demons. One day Jesus called their bluff.
"Get out of the man's life," Jesus said. The demons
answered: "We'll go, but only if you send us into those
pigs over yonder." Demons had to go somewhere, you see.
So Jesus obliged, sending the demons into the pigs. Whereupon
the pigs got crazy and tumbled over a cliff into the sea.
Which is important. Don't miss that. For it was believed that
demons could be neutralized by water. Which means that Jesus
played "Let's Make a Deal" with the demons and still
won. Water will trump demons every time. Which is why the
demon that departed from the man in Luke's little story wandered
through "waterless places," looking for lodging.
Finding none, it came back to this tidied-up house of a man
... bringing seven friends.
That's
the story. Short. Simple. A tad grim. Not terribly edifying
... at least on the surface. And for those of you who are
overwhelmed by a need to know where this is going, let me
announce three simple points. They are as follows.
1. It's
hard to keep a clean house clean.
2. A
full house beats a clean house, every time out.
3. Cleanliness
is a far, far cry from goodliness.
Let's
start with the obvious. It's hard to keep a clean house clean.
Whenever I go through and clean the parsonage from top to
bottom, I say to the wife: "Wife, let's see if we can
keep it this way for awhile." Alas, it seldom works.
Someone leaves a coat here, a sock there, a banana peel someplace
else, and a dish in the sink. Or someone neglects the proper
wiping of feet. It's hard to keep a clean house clean. Truthfully,
in our house, it is Kris who bears the greater burden and
has reason to voice the greater complaint. But you knew that
anyway. Most of the time, she rolls with it pretty well. I
am told that some women can get pretty volatile, yelling things
like: "What's the matter with you? Were you born in a
barn?" I wonder if Mary ever said that to Jesus? I wonder
what Jesus answered? For he was, you know. Born in a barn,
that is. We talked about that on Christmas Eve.
Ah, but
we're not talking about housekeeping, are we? We're talking
about more serious stuff. We're talking about the tendency
to relapse. We're talking about slip-ups and fall-backs. We're
talking about how easy it is to lose all the ground that one
has gained. "Clearly," says Joseph Fitzmyer, "this
saying of Jesus' warns against any smugness about the defeat
of evil." Don't get too comfortable, it seems to say.
Don't get too cocky. The thing that tripped you up once, can
trip you up again.
Professionals
in the diet business tell me that most of the people who take
it off, put it right back on. Along with a little more. They
are so disciplined, so careful, so focused ... for awhile.
But having reached their goal, they return to old ways of
eating. Pretty soon, they're back where they started. Or worse.
The same
is true in the drug rehab business. Only the stakes are higher.
Some years ago I received a personalized tour of a locked
treatment facility for adolescents. It was a six-week residential
program. At that time, it was considered to be the finest
in the nation. I was impressed by the competence of the staff,
the compassion of the caregivers and the creativity of the
curriculum. But I was quickly sobered when the therapist said
that over 50 percent of the people on first release will return.
So last
night I called a friend of mine who works in the field of
chemical addiction. He's as good as they come. And he's as
up-to-date as they come. I asked him if the relapse rate has
declined in recent years, given the improvement in treatment
modalities. And I was saddened to learn that it hasn't. He
said that things haven't changed in the last quarter century.
It is still assumed that 30 percent of those released from
a first hospitalization will relapse within 90 days, and an
additional 30-35 percent will relapse in 180 days.
When you
apply the relapse factor to imprisoned criminals, only the
name changes. Among penal authorities, it is called "recidivism."
But the rate of return to jail certainly equals that of drug
rehabilitation ... and may even be higher.
We see
the relapse factor in every sphere of life. Bad habits broken
are bad habits slipped back into, just when you think you've
conquered them for good. Destructive thoughts, against which
you have barred the front door, reenter through unlocked windows
in the basement of the soul. Crippling emotions defy even
the best therapies and reappear in moments of weakness and
vulnerability. Husbands and wives target harmful postures
for removal, only to find that (20 years later) they are still
doing the same dumb stuff that has worked against them from
the outset. In fact, most every marriage has one issue that
simply won't go away ... that threads itself through the history
of the union ... reappearing at regular intervals. It's hard
to keep a clean house clean.
But a
full house beats a clean house, every time out. Notice that
in Luke's little story, the fact that the man cleaned and
tidied his house almost invited the demon to return, bringing
seven friends along for the ride. If nature abhors a vacuum,
so (too) does the human spirit. A swept room is to a demon
as a red flag to a bull. "An empty soul," says William
Barkley, "is a soul in peril." To which Adam Welch
adds: "You've got to fill a man with something. It is
not enough to merely drive out the evil."
Think
of it this way. Once something destructive gets a foothold
in your life ... be it an addiction, an obsession, a compulsion,
or a pattern of destruction ... it begins to rule your life
like a tyrant. It drains energy. It extracts loyalty. It commandeers
control. But if that tyrant be toppled from the throne ...
by treatment, therapy, conversion, exorcism, prayer, whatever
... it has to be replaced. An empty throne is an engraved
invitation for the tyrant to return.
Years
ago, in a sermon by a colleague, I had this explained to me
in a way I could understand. Adopting a horticultural image,
he suggested that there are two ways to keep weeds from overtaking
your lawn. The first way is to pull them out, one by one.
You take a knife to the roots. You wear out your knees. You
add calluses to your fingers. And you kill countless hours
in the process. The second way is to feed and fertilize whatever
grass exists ... adding seed ... introducing nutrients ...
aerating the soil ... thickening the turf ... so that weeds
are literally driven from the lawn by the fertility of all
that is lush, green and desirable. While the Landscape Committee
might shoot a few holes in the edges of my argument, the point
stands. Strangely enough, we are seeing the same subtle shift
in the practice of oncology. Whereas once we treated cancer
by "destroying the bad cells at any cost," we now
make room for a mentality that includes (and sometimes favors)
"reinforcing the army of good cells, the better to repel
the invader and hold the enemy at bay."
Consider
the old cliché: "Idle hands are the devil's playmate."
It could well have its origin in this text. Why do you think
that judges are more willing to sign an "early release"
for a criminal who (while still in prison) has learned a new
skill, lined up a new job, and generated a network of friends
who will lend support in the initial days of freedom? Why
do you think that recovering addicts go to halfway houses
after hospitalization, where they can reprogram their future
with minimal risk? Why do you think that parents of deviant
teenagers sometimes sell their house and move to a new community,
in order to ensure that their kid will have a fresh start,
in a fresh environment, with fresh faces? And why do you think
that no therapy is ever complete until the therapist helps
the client deal with the future as well as the past? Because
a house that has merely been swept and tidied invites a relapse
... while a full house beats a clean house, every time out.
Finally,
cleanliness is a far, far cry from goodliness. The "good
life" is a whole lot more than just avoiding the bad.
It involves cultivating and harvesting the good. Years ago,
I walked into a worship service, scanned the bulletin, and
saw a prayer printed on the cover. I have since forgotten
every line but one. The remembered line reads: "O Lord,
I had thought it enough if my garden were weedless ... but
thou hast desired not weedlessness, but fruit." Which
suggests that God's judgment is going to come down harder
as a result of the fruit I do not grow, rather than as a result
of the weeds I do not pull. One of the most vicious displays
of anger that ever came from Jesus was not when he drove the
moneychangers from the Temple, but when he cursed and withered
the barren fig tree. Why? Because it had no fruit. It failed
to bring to the world that which was within its capacity to
bear.
Anyone
can tend a weedless garden. Anyone can keep a clean house.
But it takes energy, intentionality and creativity to bear
fruit. Still, fruit-bearing is expected. And not just any
fruit ... but good fruit.
Clean-house
people are those who embrace a religion built on negatives,
while practicing a morality structured around avoidances.
Clean-house people are known primarily for what they do not
do. Which I would not disparage. For it is surely the focus
of the Ten Commandments. Thou shalt not do this ... or this
... or this ... or seven other things besides. But that ethic
short circuits both the spirit of the law and the style of
Jesus. It also leaves the job half done.
As you
know, I spend a lot of time preaching funeral sermons. I am
told I do them well. That's because I make them personal.
But before I can fit a sermon to a person, I have got to know
the person. And in order to know the person, I have got to
ask some questions of the family. Some of the answers I get
are fascinating. I once told you that the most universal thing
I learn about people I am about to bury is that they "never
said a bad word about anybody." Which makes me wonder
who buries all the bad-mouthing folks. It must be some other
preacher. It certainly isn't me. I only bury the people who
never had a bad word to say about anybody. But it always makes
me wonder. How many good words did they say about anybody
... or for anybody ... or to anybody?
The second
biggest group I bury are those who "never hurt a soul."
But how many souls did they help? And a third group are defined
... usually by those who lived near them ... as having been
"good neighbors." So I press the issue. When somebody
says, "He was a darn good neighbor," I ask for a
clarification. In response to which I hear:
Well,
he never caused any trouble.
He pretty
much kept to himself.
You
hardly ever knew he was around.
And
he always cut his grass.
Which
is great. I want to live near people who cut their grass and
never cause trouble. But that bears no resemblance to what
the New Testament has in mind when it talks about being a
good neighbor. Let us never reduce our concept of "the
good neighbor" to something as shallow as that.
By contrast,
I love what John Killinger once said about George Buttrick.
John Killinger is a Presbyterian who was invited to submit
an essay to the Christian Century, "in praise
of a favorite teacher." He picked Buttrick, under whom
he once studied preaching at Harvard. Buttrick was a scholar,
a wordsmith, something of a loner, hardly an activist by personality
or profession. But listen to this word of tribute:
The
aspect of Buttrick's personality that stayed with me longest
was the way he coupled discipline with style. His faith
was tough and wiry. He seemed, every morning, to pit himself
against the chaos and confusion of the world, until he accomplished
something that would leave things a little more orderly
when he went to bed.
To pit
oneself, daily, against the chaos and confusion of the world,
is several cuts above the keeping of a clean house. For it
does leave things more orderly at bedtime. And it is the only
surefire way I know to prevent the return of demons.
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