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Rev. Jeff Nelson
Make It Plain: You Can't Out-Give God

Sermon:
October 29, 2006
Sunday Night Alive
 

Scripture:
2 Corinthians 8:1-9

I am starting this sermon with a warning. That’s right, I am warning you that in just a couple of minutes, I am going to bring up the single most divisive topic that a pastor can bring up. I am warning you. You can’t say you weren’t warned. As soon as I say it, it is going to get uncomfortable. I am warning you, it’s going to be a bumpy ride tonight. As a preacher, I have been advised to stay away from this topic, because as soon as I bring it up, someone is going to be offended. Someone is going to be insulted.  Someone might hear what I have to say tonight and get so angry they will never come back again. So once again, I am warning you we are about to tackle the single most uncomfortable, difficult, thorny, hard, controversial issue that a pastor can ever dare to preach about. So if you don’t want to be uncomfortable, if you don’t want to risk being offended, then now is the time to leave. 

What is this most controversial topic….the topic that is so contentious and so divisive that I had to warn you in advance? What on earth am I going to preach about tonight that needed to be prefaced with such a cautionary tag? 

Is it about sex? No.
Is it about the war? No.
Is it about who you should vote for? No.
Is it about hell?  No.
Is it about abortion? No.
Is it about stem cell research? No.
Is it about gay marriage? No. 

Not a single one of those topics even comes close to getting people as riled up as the topic I am going to talk about tonight. So, are you ready? Are you sure? All right, you asked for it. Tonight, we are going to talk about…money! That’s right, money—cold, hard cash, dead presidents, big bucks, greenbacks, moolah, dinero. We’re going to talk about money. And let’s face it, preachers would just as soon preach about anything other than money (and congregations would just as soon listen to any sermon except one about money). 

Why do we hate sermons about money? Why is money such a problem? One reason is because of the way churches talk about money and the way preachers preach about money. Too often, the church has earned a reputation of being obsessed with money. It seems like every time we turn around, the church is asking for more money. Another appeal. Another need. And when it comes to money, too often churches and preachers pull out the big guns to get it. That’s right, they use the strongest tools at their disposal: guilt and shame. You know, the “if you were a better Christian, then you’d give more” or the “if don’t give, you’re saying no to God…and you know what happens to those who say no to God” arguments. 

Here is a story. Unfortunately, it’s a true one, one that epitomizes the very worst of the church’s coercive and insensitive approach to money. It is story I read in a sermon from one of my favorite preachers, Ed Markquart, the senior pastor of Grace Lutheran Church in Des Moines, Washington. He told a story of a man now attending his congregation who is a Vietnam veteran.  He was involved in the ugliest parts of the war. He was in the worst kind of face-to-face combat—and the word “awful” does not begin to describe what this young man did and had to do. When he finally did come out of the jungle, he went back to his barracks to discover that he had received a letter from his church. 

Was it a letter of support? No.
Was it some cute drawings from the kindergarten class? No.
Was it a copy of the church’s newsletter sent just to provide some comforting thoughts of home? No. 

The letter he received from his church was the quarterly financial statement. The letter noted that he was behind in his pledge. In fact, it highlighted that he hadn’t given a dime, and implied that in order to remain in good standing, he should be sending the church his offerings. Meanwhile, out in the jungle, many of his buddies were being killed. And as each young man was killed, his GI friends took all of their money, gathered it together, and sent it back to the dead soldier’s family. These soldiers were giving away every dime they had to the families of their dead buddies. So you can imagine the anxiety this man now felt anytime his church began to talk about money. And while this example is a bit extreme, it touches one of our deepest fears when our church starts talking about money: that the church is more interested in what’s going on with our checking accounts than with what is going on in our lives. 

But our struggle with mixing our religion with our money isn’t just a church problem. It’s also a human problem. We get so uncomfortable with any talk about money because money is personal. Money is power. Money is protection. And we don’t want our church getting too involved in our personal business. We surely don’t want to give up any of the power or prestige that money gives us. And it is hard enough to protect ourselves from “the wolves at the door”—the bills and the mortgages and the tuitions—without the church continually asking us to go the “second mile.”  We get uncomfortable when the preacher starts talking about money because money is personal, private and protects.  

And if we are really honest about it, we all know there is one other reason we hate “the money sermon,” and that’s because money matters are private matters. We believe that the money we make is ours. We put in the blood, sweat and tears to earn it, so we should get to decide what we are going to do with it…thank you very much. So let’s face it, we’d just as soon not hear the preacher preach, and the preacher would just as soon not preach, about money. 

But here we are, right in the middle of the annual stewardship campaign. And so before we go any further on this topic of money, as your pastor, I need you to know two things. First, I love Jesus, and second, I love you. Because I love Jesus, I want you to know what his teachings and his gospel have to say about money. And because I love you, learning what the gospel of Christ has to say about money is one of the most important things we can ever discover. But here’s the thing about the gospel approach to money: there is no guilt and no shame. None. In fact, when it comes to money and giving it to the church, the Gospel says that if we are compelled to give out of guilt or shame, then we should just keep the money. The place where we get the best understanding of what to do with our money is in Paul’s second letter to the Corinthians. Hear these words from the eighth chapter of Second Corinthians: 

And now, brothers, we want you to know about the grace that God has given the Macedonian churches. Out of the most severe trial, their overflowing joy and their extreme poverty welled up in rich generosity. For I testify that they gave as much as they were able, and even beyond their ability. Entirely on their own, they urgently pleaded with us for the privilege of sharing in this service to the saints. And they did not do as we expected, but they gave themselves first to the Lord and then to us in keeping with God’s will. So we urged Titus, since he had earlier made a beginning, to bring also to completion this act of grace on your part. But just as you excel in everything—in faith, in speech, in knowledge, in complete earnestness and in your love for us—see that you also excel in this grace of giving.  
 

I am not commanding you, but I want to test the sincerity of your love by comparing it with the earnestness of others. For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though he was rich, yet for your sakes he became poor, so that you through his poverty might become rich.  

As we read Paul’s letters to the church in Corinth, we discover that Paul had no small task ahead of him in trying to get the Corinthian church on solid footing. Let’s just say they had issues. There was infighting, selfishness, pettiness, sexual immorality, racism and classism keeping them from being the people God had called them to be. Yet right at the end of the first letter that deals with the centrality of the gospel, Paul talks with them about giving. Despite their problems, they had the responsibility to participate in giving, along with the other churches. The particular offering Paul was collecting was to help the impoverished Jewish church in Jerusalem. Part of Paul’s rationale in such an effort was to help the Gentile believers appreciate the Jewish believers for laying the foundation for their spiritual transformation. 

However, it seems that the Corinthians didn’t care much for sermons about money. In the passage we just read from his second letter to them, Paul points to the churches of Macedonia (Philippi, Thessalonica, and Berea) and says, “Look at them. This is what giving looks like.” So why did the Corinthians have so much trouble giving their money when it seemed these other churches didn’t? We might think that it was because the Corinthians were in dire financial straits, so that giving had to take a backseat to surviving.  

Yet, just the opposite was the case. Paul tells us of the Macedonian believers’ “deep poverty.” The region of Macedonia had been a wealthy state due to gold and silver mines during the heyday of the Greek Empire. But Rome had stripped their wealth by taking over the mines, and additionally, by adding high taxes and increasing the costs of housing and food. “The country was like a lacerated and disjointed animal,” describes one writer (Rogers, Linguistic Key, Revised, 408, quoting A. Plummer). The Macedonians understood the depths of poverty.  

On the other hand, Corinth sat at the center of the trade route between the East and West. The narrow isthmus connecting the Ionian Sea and Aegean Sea, along with the ports of Cenchrea and Lechaeum, put Corinth in the middle of plentiful jobs and a booming economy. Yet the impoverished Macedonians led the way over the wealthy Corinthians in giving. 

So, what was the difference between the reluctant giving of the Corinthians and the abundant giving of the Macedonians? This is where our passages of scripture tonight offer the most practical advice in all of Scripture on the subject of giving. But before we look in detail at these verses, let me tell you what we won’t find there. We won’t find manipulation or arm-twisting techniques to squeeze money out of the Corinthians. Nor do we find rigid rules that rob persons of the joy of giving. We don’t find promises that God will bless us with more money for the money we learn to give. We find none of the stuff that churches are notorious for saying when it comes to trying to press their people to give more money. Instead, we discover the central truth for matters dealing with church and money. This scripture makes it plain. We can’t out-give God. 

Remember how Paul describes these congregations of Macedonia. They were filled with joy. Despite their hardships, they were overflowing with generosity. They pleaded with Paul to be a part of the offering. It was like they begged for him to preach about giving their money. And get this. When the offering baskets were passed, there was a tremendous applause. And when the offerings were counted, all were amazed at the amount of money these poor congregations had collected. 

And then comes verse five. If you go home and underline one piece of scripture, make it this one. Verse five of the eighth chapter of Paul’s second letter to the Corinthians has the secret to Christian giving and the key to understanding our relationship with money. It reads, “And they [the Macedonians] did not do as we expected, but they gave themselves first to the Lord and then to us in keeping with God’s will.” There it is, the secret to not just a Christian understanding of money and giving, but the very secret to the entire Christian life. “They gave themselves first to the Lord…and then to us.”  

The Macedonians were able to give their money away so freely and abundantly because they had first given themselves to God. And once they had done that, everything else was simply a response to that. You see, the Macedonians discovered that in giving their lives to Christ, they had encountered a God who had given them the things that money could never buy…peace, love, hope, grace, forgiveness, purpose, direction and joy beyond measure. And once you have come into contact with this God made known in Christ, then you realize that everything in our lives is a gift. And when you realize that everything is a gift, how can you not share it with others? The Macedonian Christians discovered that when it comes to giving, you can’t out-give God.  

That is preciously what Paul wants the Corinthians to come to know. He doesn’t want to coerce or guilt them into giving. No, he wants them to come into a relationship with the God who has given them more than they could ever imagine, a relationship that will change and transform their lives. And then he paints them a picture of this God. It is right there in verse nine. “For you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though he was rich, yet for your sakes he became poor, so that you through his poverty might become rich.” In Jesus Christ, God gave himself. God, who lived and reigned in heaven, took on human flesh and became one of us. And not only in Jesus did God live among us, in Jesus God died on the cross for us, and in Jesus God rose from the dead to transform us. Make no mistake, God gave us the greatest gift of all. In Jesus, God gave us himself. 

Friends, before we even talk about giving our money to the church, I want to make sure we talk about giving our lives to Christ. Because once you do that, once you finally say to Jesus, “Lord, I don’t know everything about you and I don’t know everything about what you want me to be or want me to do, but I want to follow you and I want to receive the gift that you offered the world in life, death and resurrection and make it my own,” then nobody will ever have to convince you about how and where to give your money. Because, simply put, when you look into the eyes of Jesus, you realize you can’t out-give God. 

So here’s what I want you to do this week. I want you to pick one day this week where you go around for a whole day with a small pad of paper and a pencil, and I want you to make notes of everything you realize is a gift from God. When you lay your head down on the pillow that night before you go to sleep, I want you to say a little prayer of thanksgiving for all the gifts you have been given. And then I want you to do one more thing. When the pledge card from the church comes in the next week or so, asking you to make a monetary commitment to the church for the year, I want you to pull out this list and place it by the card and make your pledge in light of what God has given you. If we do this, I think we will find ourselves like the Macedonians, in the “privilege of sharing in this service to the saints.” For in the end, it will be made plain: “We can’t out-give God.” 


 


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