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Rev. Taek Kim
Am I Loved?

Sermon:
March 30, 2003
Sunday Night Alive!
 

Scripture:
John 4:1-30
         
John 4:39-42

 

I pray that tonight’s sermon will leave you wanting more rather than less. For time is short for this service, and so then will be this sermon. Therefore, I will get right into John’s account of Jesus and the woman at the well. 

There are a few things that should be emphasized. First, we read that Jesus had to go through Samaria. Now, we don’t know why he had to, except that this ministry stop was on his agenda from his Heavenly Father. 

Second, the woman at the well went to draw water at the sixth hour of the day. That is noon. Since it gets pretty hot in the desert, most people never draw water at noon. But this woman did, for reasons we can only speculate. Biblical commentators and seminary professors told me during my theological education that it was because she was ashamed of her life, knowing she had had several husbands and that she was not married to the man with whom she was currently living. People in her village knew of her, and she did not want to encounter more people than she had to. 

Finally, there were religious and social norms that Jesus ventured over and through. As you know, Jesus was a Jew.  The woman at the well was a Samaritan. What’s the big deal? There were major religious barriers during Jesus’ time. It was not only that Samaritans and Jews were forbidden to associate, but also that men and women were not to associate in public so as to avoid defilement. Almost like ancient cooties. It should be emphasized that the Jews upheld these laws and religious practices. Therefore Jesus, a Jew, was not supposed to associate with the Samaritan woman. We know well that Jesus was popular and unpopular for dismissing the law when it did not follow in step with loving God and loving others. 

The Samaritan woman thinks she’s going to be alone to get her much-needed water. But Jesus is hanging out at the well. He speaks to her and asks for a drink of water. Now, though Jesus may have been thirsty, he did not ask for a drink of water solely to quench his thirst and go on his way. Jesus always had a reason for everything he did. If you read the portion of scripture in the middle of the story when the disciples come back with lunch, Jesus said he was not hungry since his food was to do the will of his Heavenly Father. It must have been similar with the water, for he had a well of living water to sustain him. 

Now, returning to the well, the woman snaps back at Jesus’ request for a drink by reminding Jesus about the Jewish laws and how he was out of line. Jesus knows where the conversation will go and carries on with no offense taken. Not only does he tell her that he has living water that will be like a spring of water welling up to eternal life (which goes right over her head), but that he is the Messiah, the Christ. That is a major statement that could have shocked the woman into laughter and total disbelief. But since Jesus revealed things about her that he could not have known, she believed that he could be the Messiah. She was so excited, she even left her water jar. 

Meanwhile, the disciples met up with Jesus with lunch. Jesus was not ready to sit and have a meal. For lo and behold, the Samaritan woman brought everyone from her town who was willing to come and see the man who told her everything she did. When the townspeople actually saw Jesus, they were beside themselves and asked him to stay with them as their guest. The Samaritan woman, who was avoiding the townspeople, became a public announcer and important instrument among them for Jesus and the Good News. 

When was the last time you went out to get water from a well? I’ve only done it once in my life at some school field trip to a farm, and I didn’t drink the water. But let’s think about times or circumstances in our lives when we’d rather get our “water” alone and away from anyone to encounter. It does not matter what the “water” is. What matters is that we go to get it, and sometimes we don’t want to be bothered. The “water” is something we are seeking without God.  That “water” you are fetching may even be something that Jesus wants you to do, as he pleases. Maybe Jesus really wants nothing from you so much as wanting a closer relationship with you. Jesus focuses on meeting you through the “water.” 

Are there places where you may be missing the presence and work of Jesus in your life? Maybe you’re even ignoring him. Jesus told us that he is always with us. Depending on where you are and what you are doing, that could either be very comforting or very discomforting. But Jesus is not uncomfortable, not one bit. 

Is your first thought, “Jesus, I’m busy, aren’t I supposed to meet you either at church or when I call?” Or, “Jesus, you’re not supposed to associate with me until I’m in the right place and at the right time.” You may even say to yourself, “I need some alone time.” Whether at work, at play, or anywhere else, Jesus wants us to be filled with his life-giving spirit that wells up in us and overflows to those around us. Christ tells us that he has what we need to sustain us in everything we do. Jesus is not saying we are to stop drinking the “water,” but rather, to find the life-giving water that cannot be found in a well on earth, only in him. 

As with the Samaritan woman, we may feel that though we know about Jesus, but we may not really experience his presence in our daily lives. There are several reasons we don’t or choose not to experience Jesus’ presence in our lives. We’re too busy. I know what that can be like.  We’re at places in our lives that, in our minds, Jesus is not invited. Or we just plain forget.  Whatever the reason, one question remains. Am I loved? 

Our lives are to be living sacrifices so that in everything we do; we do it unto the Lord.  Remember when the Samaritan woman said that her people do not know who they worship, that there is only one place to worship, and that they are not allowed to go there?  Jesus told her that the true worshippers God seeks are the ones who worship in spirit and truth.  That is, we worship with the spirit of God and the living truth of Christ Jesus in us. 

We may not see that we are worshipping God in everyday activities, in all our relationships with family, friends, and even our enemies. We may wonder if it is even possible to worship God when we are at work, at home, at school, or places other than a church or place of worship. Jesus tells us that our lives are spiritual acts of worship that testify to everyone that we are loved. That is one major part of the Samaritan woman’s testimony that shocks the townspeople. For if the Messiah had come, he had come and spoken to a female Samaritan who had a lifestyle that even she was ashamed of. What does this tell her family, friends, and even enemies? Her witness tells them that she is loved for who she is. For what God calls us to do and be is something we strive for and continue to grow in as Christians, a life full of God’s love and presence. 

The Samaritan woman and the townspeople experienced his acceptance and awesome presence, and they wanted Jesus to stay longer. How do you think your life would change if you began to realize how much you are loved and that experiencing a fellowship with God is ongoing and forever? How would the way you live be affected if you began to realize every aspect of your life is to be lived with the goal of loving and worshipping God with your all? Your life does reflect what you are consumed with. A life that is consumed with God is one that reflects God’s love though acts of compassion, mercy, justice, forgiveness and love. A life consumed with self is practically the opposite. 

God wants you to draw closer through spiritual disciplines such as prayer, scripture reading and a life full of kindness, compassion, mercy and acts of justice. In so doing, your life will be a testimony to others of his love for you. 

I have heard about, read of, and even witnessed people who lived a life that basically could not answer the question, “Am I loved?” Their lives were filled with a fair share of happiness and sadness, good times and bad, and other such things that happen in life that you and I also experience. But with a razor sharp cut, the question that plagued their lives that was left unanswered drove them to different degrees of self-destructive behaviors that in turn hurt others. 

Think about Jesus being at the places in your life where you feel left alone, where you’d rather be left alone, and where you don’t think Jesus would be. You may have places in your life that you are alone because if others knew, it could be a social taboo, like Jews and Samaritans meeting. But Jesus doesn’t care about the social taboos as much as he cares about you, seeking you out where you are and wanting you to discover that you are loved. Think about what Jesus may be offering you in those places and times where he can give you some source of “water” to quench a thirst that you never thought you’d find. 

You may interpret Jesus’ presence as rude or even intrusive in some areas of your life. You may say he is the Lord of your life, but when it comes to some areas of your life, it may be otherwise.  Do you believe that being an individual and your own person is more fulfilling than the life-giving presence of Jesus in all areas of your life? And do you venture to say that Jesus does not love you because you cannot do what you want?

In reality, you are able to do whatever you want. God’s love for us is amazing, and sometimes confusing. Though God loves us with sweat and blood, even to the point of dying on a cross, seeking to save us so that we may live holy lives that seek God’s kingdom and righteousness, he also loves us enough to allow us free will. Free will and, as Christians, grace are abundant as sin is abundant, is wonderful. The grace and forgiveness given to us freely was obtained through such a great cost which should lead us to live for God with our utmost highest effort, not with forgetfulness and even abuse, excusing sin because God’s grace and forgiveness is so abundant. 

God does not break the bruised reed. God is the heavenly parent that provides and offers with gentle, yet firm, promptings and direction to draw you closer and to empower you to live a life worthy of God’s calling. May your life testify to others with a joyful ‘Yes!’ to the question, Am I loved?


 


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