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In Hugh Price
Hughes’ story, "City of Everywhere," a man arrived
in a city one cold morning. As he got off the train, the
station was like any other station with the crowds and
redcaps, except that everybody was barefooted. They wore no
shoes. He noticed the cab driver was barefooted. "Pardon
me," he asked the driver, "I was just wondering why
you don’t wear shoes. Don’t you believe in shoes?"
"Sure we
do," said the driver.
"Why don’t
you wear them?"
"Ah, that’s
the question," came the reply. "Why don’t we wear
shoes? Why don’t we?"
At the hotel it
was the same. The clerk, bellboys, everybody was barefooted.
In the coffee shop he noticed a nice-looking fellow at the
table opposite him who was also barefooted. He said, "I
notice you aren’t wearing any shoes. I wonder why? Don’t
you know about shoes?"
The man replied,
"Of course I know about shoes."
"Then why don’t
you wear them?"
"Ah, that’s
the question. Why don’t we? Why don’t we?"
After breakfast he
walked out on the street in the snow but every person he saw
was barefooted. He asked another man about it, and pointed out
how shoes protect the feet from cold. The man said, "We
know about shoes. See that building over there? That is a shoe
factory. We are proud of that plant and every week we gather
there to hear the man in charge tell about shoes and how
wonderful they are."
"Then why don’t
you wear shoes?"
"Ah, that’s
the question."
Don’t we believe
in prayer? Don’t we know what it could mean in our lives?
Then why don’t we pray? Ah, that’s the question…Why don’t
we? I believe we don’t pray because we don’t understand
what prayer is really about, and we haven’t claimed this
promise of joy and thanksgiving that is available to us
through prayer.
Church, it is time
to talk about prayer, because prayer is central to our
Christian faith. Dr. Stephen Olford, a right-hand man for
Billy Graham, says "No one can claim to be a man or woman
of God without a life of prayer." As Christians, we know
that prayer is vitally important. But for many of us, our
prayer lives are more disorganized than the rest of our lives.
Why is our prayer life so haphazard?
I believe we fall
for the basic time management issue. We believe prayer is
important, but prayer is never urgent. Unless we are called on
to pray in public for some occasion like a wedding or banquet,
we don’t take any time to prepare ourselves for prayer.
Prayer is never pressing on us unless we are totally out of
control, facing a job dilemma or a life-and-death situation.
Then, when we wait until we’re out of control to pray, we
don’t seem to have the tools or the experience to make it
meaningful.
Henry Blackaby and
Claude King, in their workbook Experiencing God, say:
If you as a
Christian do not know when God is speaking, you are in
trouble at the heart of your Christian life! As you look at
the Bible, you see that prayer is one of the most consistent
and regular ways that God speaks to us. God wants to
make it personal. Remember God loves you and the
number one thing He wants is a relationship with you. God
wants us to look to Him in a relationship rather than a
method or technique. If Moses had been around today, he
would have been tempted to write a book like My Burning
Bush Experience. Then he would appear on Oprah. Think of
the phenomenon that would occur with everyone running around
looking for their burning bushes! The key is not how
God spoke, but that He spoke. Moses would have been
foolish to say: "This has been a wonderful experience
with this burning bush. I hope it leads me to an encounter
with God!" When God spoke, that was the
encounter with living God, the Creator of the universe.
When God speaks to
you through prayer, you will come to know that that is God.
Sometimes in prayer you will have a new idea, a new hope about
a situation, or a new attitude toward a person. Through
prayer, you and I bring divine resources to bear on our
situation. Without prayer, you and I cut ourselves off from
those resources God wants to offer to us. Those ideas, those
thoughts, those new attitudes are your encounter with God.
God, by his Holy
Spirit, reveals truth. Truth is not just some concept to be
studied. Truth is a person. Jesus did not say, "I will
teach you the truth." He said, "I am…the
truth." (John 14:6) When God gives us eternal life,
he gives us himself. He does not hold anything back. When he
reveals truth, he is not teaching us a concept to think about.
He is leading us to a relationship with a person. Jesus is our
life!
Prayer is a
relationship. Prayer is a two-way fellowship and communication
with God. You speak to God and God speaks to you. It is not a
one-way conversation. Your personal prayer life may be
primarily one-way communication—you talking to God. If that
were all prayer was, it would make Paul’s admonishment to
"Pray without ceasing" a dreadful duty. But prayer
is more than that. Prayer includes listening as well, just as
in a human relationship.
Prayer is a
relationship, not just a religious activity. Prayer is
designed more to adjust you to God than to adjust God to you.
God doesn’t need your prayers, but he wants you to pray. And
there are things God cannot or will not do unless God’s
people pray. You need to pray because of what God wants to do
in and through your life during your praying.
Prayer is an
encounter with God? All that is contained in prayer? God is
speaking to me? Now that may seem a tall order, especially if
lately you haven’t experienced your prayers going any
further than your ceiling. We tend to reserve it for last
place, when we don’t have anything left on our schedules,
don’t we? When we’re totally exhausted is when we say:
"Oh well, I guess I’d better pray." Imagine if
your best friend called you up on the phone 30 seconds before
they fell asleep every night. But isn’t that what we do to
God? And yet God loves us and is crazy about us still.
The hope for our
prayer lives is found in Romans 8:26-27: "The Spirit
helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray
for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groans that
words cannot express. And he who searches our hearts knows
that mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the
believers in accordance with God’s will." What a
promise! When you run out of words, maybe that’s when the
Holy Spirit becomes freed up to pray on your behalf to the
Father. The Holy Spirit has an advantage over us—he already
knows the will of God. How do you know when the Holy Spirit is
speaking to you? I can’t give you a formula. But if you are
growing in your relationship with Christ, I can tell you that
you will know his voice, just as Jesus said. "The
sheep follow him because they know his voice." (John
10:4) There may be lots of other shepherds calling for their
sheep, but the sheep of God know him by his voice.
Imagine coming to
know God better and better throughout your life. Nothing could
be more exciting than to come to know God more and more, as
you grow in life and in relationship to him! And if you are
experiencing silence from God, it could mean you have sin in
your life that is so interfering with your relationship that
you can’t hear God’s voice or you can’t understand what
he is saying to you. We generally know if that is us. You know
the sin that you hold onto, that you cling to so tightly, that
does nothing but build up the wall between you and God. No
wonder we can’t hear God’s voice. No wonder we can’t
understand him. It’s because of that sin that we’ve
allowed. It may be something so minor that you don’t think
about it. If you are hearing silence, pray that God would
reveal this to you. Is there something in my life that I need
to totally hand over to God? We know what it is that we’re
choosing to hold onto that is keeping us from God. My prayer
for you would be to let it go. Give it to God and let God deal
with that sin. In our weakness he is strong. You don’t have
to fight that battle by yourself. Let God do it for you. If
you don’t know what to pray, just empty yourself and let the
groaning of the Holy Spirit take over your prayers. However,
silence from God could also mean that God is ready to bring
into your life a greater revelation of himself than you have
ever known. Prayer involves watching and waiting and watching
and waiting.
So now we come to
our verse from Paul’s first letter to the Thessalonians: "Rejoice
always. Pray without ceasing. In everything give thanks; for
this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus." The
church Paul had started there was facing persecution. They
were facing internal conflicts within the church. In the
previous verses, Paul was telling them how they were to get
along with one another. He seems to imply that it is
impossible to live that way on the outside unless you are in
communion with God. These are Paul’s admonitions for living
inwardly the life that will in turn impact your life
outwardly. "Rejoice always. Pray without ceasing. In
everything give thanks; for this is God’s will for you in
Christ Jesus." Graham Scroggie, an old professor of
homiletics (preaching), used to tell his students: "Pray
when you feel like it. Pray when you don’t feel like it.
Pray until you feel like it." Pray without ceasing. This
kind of prayer calls for obedience and reliance. The fact that
we fail so often in our prayer times shows us the cost of
obedience. If there were no cost for following Christ, we
would have no problem with prayer. Nevertheless, we are to
"pray without ceasing."
This kind of
prayer calls for dependence. It is the opposite of being
self-sufficient (which we are all taught to be), but
spiritually we are to be fully dependent on him. Many people
discover God only when they feel bankrupt in their lives. As a
parent, I want for and cherish the times when my kids really
need me, when they can’t do something on their own. But how
much more of a blessing it is when my kids include me in their
daily lives. How much more I can help them when they check in,
or stop to ask, or spend time with me daily. Jesus said God is
not like a father, but God is our Father. Unceasing prayer
takes obedience and dependence.
Paul calls us to
pray right in the middle of telling us to "rejoice
always" and to "give thanks in everything."
Remember Paul and Silas, locked in a Roman jail. Despite being
beaten with rods and locked in stocks, they were joyful,
singing hymns of prayer to God until the foundations of the
prison were shaken. They were outwardly chained, but inwardly
free in their spirit, and no amount of bondage could take that
away from them.
The most miserable
people are those who cannot be grateful for anything. Paul,
who lost loved ones because of persecution, was shipwrecked,
beaten, whipped, stoned and arrested, tells the Thessalonians
to "give thanks in all things." Apart from
Christ, that makes no sense. If all people have to go on is
devoid of faith, if all people have to go on is devoid of the
greater calling of God in their lives, then life is like
playing roulette. If you win, you’re happy. If you lose, you’re
sad. It is a very fatalist world view, and it is a hugely
popular one. It’s what leads people to ridiculous things
like psychics, and fate, and a false sense of reality.
But together with
Christ, we have this hope. We may not understand what is
happening in our lives, but we know that God is faithful. And
for that we can be grateful, even in the midst of great
tragedy. God has not left us alone. But Paul writes: "Give
thanks in all things." All things? Does this mean we
have to be thankful for the deaths of thousands on September
11? Of course not. In their anguish, many people ask:
"Why doesn’t God intervene for all those people who die
prematurely?" But the truth is God did intervene.
He died for them long before they were born. He died even for
those who would never believe in him. God does not hide in
times of trouble. He proved that 2000 years ago on a cross. In
that critical moment that spelled the difference between life
and death for everyone in the whole world, through all of
time, God intervened. He could have remained safely in heaven
instead of taking on human form. But instead he put himself
directly in harm’s way. "There is no greater love
than the one who lays down his life for another."
(John 15:13)
Because of this
hope, we can be thankful "in all things," because
God has already taken care of us. God has already loved us.
Jesus already died in our place. We can enter into prayer
thankfully for all that Jesus has already done. When you have
that under your belt, prayer can become thankful, even joyful.
Though we don’t understand everything, we can know that God’s
plan can never be thwarted. That is why we must "pray
without ceasing."
Prayer is a life
struggle. Prayer is also a lifestyle. In Memphis one year, I
was working with a group of high school kids on a home in the
inner city. One group of kids was working on making a railing
for Miss Hortence’s porch. They cut the vertical pieces to
go around the railing. They cut the first piece the height it
needed to be, then they used that one to cut the second, then
they used that one to cut the third. If they would have ever
put up that side of the porch railing, poor Miss Hortence
would have had vertigo from standing on her porch, trying to
hang on to the slanted railing! If you have a room full of
pianos that need tuning, you don’t tune the first piano and
then tune the second one to it, then tune the third to the
second. You would wind up with a cacophony. Instead, you
measure each piece you cut to the correctness of the measuring
tape. You tune each piano to the same tuning fork. Prayer is
like that. It is a constant and readily available measure and
guide to your life. Tune it to the right thing. Don’t tune
it to what everybody else is saying. Don’t go through just
anybody. Measure your life constantly to God’s plan. Tune
your life constantly to Jesus.
Pray. It’s as
basic to our Christian life as shoes are to walking. Pray.
Consistently, joyfully, full of thanksgiving. Don’t worry
about the words. Remember the Holy Spirit intercedes for us
when we don’t know what to do. Do it with joy. Do it with
thanksgiving. Because of prayer, as a Christian, you can no
longer say: "There’s nothing I can do." You can
always pray. Prayer does something in us. Prayer does
something for us. Prayer does something through us. God is
that ready and that available. Won’t you take time? Won’t
you make time—to pray?
Heavenly
Father, Lord, we thank you that you have not left us alone. We
thank you for this promise and this guide. We hear your
command to rejoice always, and to pray unceasingly, and to
give thanks in all things, for this is your will for us in
Christ Jesus. Lord, many of us are coming from difficult
times. Many of us walked in here heavy laden, troubled with
cares and anxiety. We have a sense of being lost and alone. So
Lord, right now we take all those things and give them to you.
We don’t want them back. Help us even as we breathe, in and
out, in and out, to be in prayer: speaking and listening,
speaking and listening. In the name of Jesus Christ we pray,
trusting that your Spirit intercedes for us when we don’t
have the words. Amen.
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