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At this time of
the year, I think about what might have been last year. Where
I might have been had I not quit working out. Had I quit
eating! Had I been more faithful in my personal time on a
daily basis. I also think of what could be new this year, and
how exciting that is. Sometimes I write down goals, or what
some might refer to as resolutions. In my devotions, I came
across a list of resolutions by a Christian teenager:
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I will gain no
more than 2.3 percent of my body weight in pimples, unless
I give up Big Macs and fries, which is obviously something
I won’t do…even if I could.
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Once and for
all, no matter what, by the grace of God, I will kick the
habit of lying.
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I won’t
write run-on sentences they are hard to read.
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I will
surprise my parents and thank each of them for something,
anything, once a week for at least five weeks, even if
they snoop and deserve hard labor in upper Siberia.
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I will never
admit that I swish Jell-O between my teeth, unless in
confidence to fellow swishers.
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I will make
every effort to smile at somebody I’d rather not smile
at—for at least the next 7 times I see them.
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I will
volunteer for no more than two extra-curricular
assignments per week that I have no intention of doing.
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I will remind
myself over and over and over again that God loves me—even
if I haven’t kicked the lying habit, which I’ll do,
doggone it, if it’s the last thing I do.
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I will not
spend money frivolously, except on cherry Jell-O.
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I will read
the Bible and do my devotion at the beginning of each day.
Sometimes we
Christians need to set some goals. We need the reminder that
Paul gives the church in Ephesus for us to claim the new life
Christ offers us and has given us. I like the time between
Christmas and New Year’s because it gives us the opportunity
to reflect on the past year and look ahead to the new one. As
such, we live as Christians. I want to look at this passage in
depth today as we think about this new year. Maybe you had a
rough year and you are looking for help. Maybe you had a good
year. With the Lord as our guide, we can expect them to get
even better. Whether it was good, or bad, we should not let
yesterday rob us of tomorrow.
"Now this I affirm and insist on in the Lord: you must no
longer live as the Gentiles live, in the futility of their
minds. They are darkened in their understanding, alienated
(excluded) from the life of God."
Paul seems to be
sounding a bit judgmental. He almost sounds condemning. But I
think of it in terms of the attitude that my recovering
friends have. They would tell another recovering alcoholic,
"Don’t live like the rest of the drinkers do, in the
futility of their minds." If you have had someone who is
recovering share with you, you know they aren’t condemning
those who are still living the lifestyle. Because they know
that "but for the grace of God, that would be them."
At the same time, they don’t want to go back. Those who have
only lived cannot see what those who have died and now live
can see. For those who have seen, it is futile to go back. Yet
we do, don’t we? But we don’t have to. We can be free of
the old life in the way someone recovering can—one day at a
time. There is a better way. A better year is waiting for us.
But to get to there from here we need to claim the better way:
Jesus’ way. We need to be bold. Remember God’s message to
the church of Laodicea: "Because you are lukewarm –
neither hot nor cold – I am about to spit you out of my
mouth." (Revelation 3:16) We’ve got to remember,
there is only one way the puzzle of life will fit together,
and that’s God’s way.
Paul already says
what happens when we go back to our old ways. We aren’t
punished by God. We are simply alienated or excluded from the
life of God. We alienate ourselves when we hang on to
attitudes and behaviors and thinking that dwells in sin and
dwells on the negative. After all, the blame and shame of
yesterday will bury us if we don’t bury them.
We are to say
"yes" to God. We are to say "yes" to good
things. We shouldn’t exclude ourselves from good things.
That’s why Paul reminds us that when we allow ourselves to
fall into those old modes of operating, we effectively exclude
ourselves from much of the goodness that God has waiting for
us. God wants us to experience his goodness.
That’s just
having good boundaries. Our boundaries are like our skin. It
is designed to keep the good stuff in, and the bad stuff out.
God wants us to have good boundaries. God wants us to receive
good things in our lives, as much as He wants us to bury the
bad things in our lives. And I trust you know I’m not
necessarily thinking of things.
"They are
darkened in their understanding, alienated (excluded) from the
life of God because of their ignorance and hardness of
heart." Hardness of heart is something I fear. I don’t
want to become callous to what God has for me. When we allow
ourselves to go back to the way we were, we can lose all
sensitivity and become callous. That’s like experiencing
death before life is over. It is what the Greek gods were
known for. The word apathy was seen as a virtue. To be
unaffected and above it all. And yet when we become above it
all we become dead to life. Dead to the hurting and the noise
and the life and the living and the good things as well.
The writer of
Hebrews talks about this in much of the book of Hebrews. In
3:13, he says, "Encourage one another daily while it
is still called today, lest your hearts be hardened by the
deceitfulness of sin." Sin is out to deceive us, and
when we fall for it enough, we become callous.
"They are
darkened in their understanding…and have abandoned
themselves to sensuality, greedy to practice every kind of
impurity, with a continual lust for more. That is not the way
you learned Christ!" Look who you abandon when you
follow the old attitudes into the old habits. Paul writes,
"They have…abandoned themselves." You are less
than God’s best for your life when you abandon yourself. You
give up a piece of your soul when you lose yourself to
sensuality and impurity. And then there’s a continual lust
for more!
Why do we abandon
the new life in Christ for our old ways of yesteryear? Because
most of us prefer the hell of a predictable situation rather
than risk the joy of an unpredictable one. It’s our fallen,
sinful human nature. Old habits die hard. We need to bury
them. We need to trust that God’s strength is sufficient for
us. Sufficient for making it through one day without sin. God
gives enough of his Holy Spirit in our lives, enough of his
grace to make it through one day without sinning.
There are so many
issues in life that would be settled, that would not drain us
of the energy involved in decision making, if we would settle
once and for all who we are and whose we are. When we say a
solid "yes" to God, we are given discernment as to
what we should say "no" to and the power to say it.
And then our "no" to those things becomes a
"yes" to God.
"For
surely you have heard about him and were taught in him, as
truth is in Jesus. You were taught to put away your former way
of life, your old self, corrupt and deluded by its lusts…"
There is a line
drawn in the sand, only instead of sand Paul is calling us to
draw a line in cement and step over it. Put away your former
life. Put away your old self. Sometimes I picture my old
former life like a dead Siamese twin; like a corpse that I
choose to carry around with me. I go here, I pick it up. I go
there, I pick it up and drag it along with me. That’s the
old self Paul is calling us to let go of, that Jesus has saved
us from, that he has called us away from. And it’s rank. It
stinks! And we need to let it go.
I think I do it
because, as Paul says, we become deluded by the former life’s
lusts. To be "deluded by our lusts" is such a common
phenomenon. There are entire industries built on nothing but
supporting the delusions of our lusts. We need constant input
from God’s Word to help us discern what is of the world in
that way. What is nothing but a delusion coming out of our
lusts?
"…and to
be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and to clothe
yourselves with the new self, created according to the
likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness."
Be renewed in the
spirit of your minds. I believe the spirit of your mind is
your attitude. And attitude makes all the difference.
According to Chuck Swindoll, 90% of life is attitude, and the
rest is how we respond to the other 10%. The spirit of your
minds is that attitude and the new attitude that Christ calls
us to.
Clothe yourself
with the new self. Put on Christ. I often tell the high school
students that if the class if really boring, and you’re
really having a difficult time in it, pretend that you like
it. Pretend that you like biology. Pretend that you’re
really interested in trigonometry. But if you
"trick" yourself into pretending that you’re
interested in it, what happens? It becomes easier. You
actually become interested in it. When Paul asks us to
"clothe ourselves," we are putting on Christ, we are
pretending, we’re playing dress up, and we’re moving in
the direction God wants us to move. We’ve been created
according to the likeness of God when we step into our new
selves. We are reclaiming what we lost when Adam and Eve
sinned. And we are recreated in the likeness of God in true
righteousness and holiness.
Righteousness is
nothing more than being in right relationship with God.
Choosing to be in a relationship with God. Agreeing with God.
And holiness means being set apart. Holiness means realizing
that we are good enough to let ourselves be set apart from the
dead Siamese twin. To let ourselves be set apart from the
former lives that we have led. To let ourselves be set apart
from sin. To be claimed and embraced by the living God through
his Son Jesus. Clothe yourselves with the new self.
Who is the new
self? Jesus Christ. Paul writes to the Galatians: "Christ
in you." When we put our faith in Christ, he enters into
our lives in a new way. We do nothing the rest of our lives
but try to conform to that life that is already within us and
grow into his likeness. How do people come to know who Jesus
Christ is? They see him in you. "If anyone is in
Christ, he or she is a new creation; the old has gone, the new
has come!" (2 Corinthians 5:17) Remember, in the
beginning we were made in God’s image. Because God has
forgiven us and raised us, we are born again, to be obedient
in thought, word, attitude and action to Christ.
Let us make a
resolution to turn from the old, and put on the new, realizing
that we will experience God in a new and wonderful and
powerful way. We don’t choose to live in defeat, but we live
so that we will be renewed in the spirit of our minds, clothed
in Christ, and re-created in the likeness of God. May
righteousness and holiness reflect his love throughout this
year!
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father,
we thank you for your Word. We thank you for your servant Paul
and his letter to the Ephesians. We thank you that you have
called us away from the old self with all its former sins and
desires and lusts and futility. We know that there is but one
way to solve the puzzle of life, and that it is your way. Help
us do that, Lord. And help us share your love in service to
the world throughout this year. All these things we ask in the
name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
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